Hi everyone, this is my first post and while this topic doesn't really have anything to do with being hung I thought I'd ask for your opinions anyway. I've been going out with this girl for over a year, and I think what I feel with her is love. I know a lot of people say that at my age (20) that I don't know what love is, maybe they're right, who knows. Things have been perfect for our time together, and nothing in our relationship has changed, but now enters another into my world. This girl I met online about 3 years ago seems real cool, we know a lot about each other and have been talking a long time, only online. Shes had a lot of problems in life with family rejecting her, her running away. Shes a very complicated 17 year old. She also has some psych issues, not a serial killer...I mean like she told me she thinks shes a guy trapped in a girls body, shes bisexual which is cool with me...maybe I shouldn't call them psych issues, they're perfectly normal. I just mean shes different, which makes her cool. Anyway lately we've been talking on the phone, and shes just so fun to talk to. Here's where I get confused. This girl who I started talking to is very open sexually, we talk a lot about our experiences, things we likes, fantasies, etc...one time she was like, "Jerk off", I said huh? And she was like, yea I wanna hear you breathe while you do it. Talking to her is really hot and I like it. Later that night on the phone she was like...would you fuck me? She said it would have nothing attached...she just wants to be fucked, she doesn't want a relationship. So whats my problem? Well...I do feel I love my girlfriend, whether its love or not I have feelings for her, but not sexual as much anymore...all I can think about is this other girl who lives far far away. This whole things tears me apart, I keep thinking what can I do. The other girl has offered to come to where I live, cause she often runs away with no place to go. I know this probably sounds stupid getting feelings for a girl who only wants sex from men. But I can just see myself as a close friend with benefits to her...I guess what I wish could happen is to have a sexual relationship separate from a meaningful relationship.