This is kind of a hypothetical (and maybe dumb) question I was rolling around in my head while body surfing at the beach this weekend. The hypothetical is (for gay or straight guys here, whomever): while walking around the beach, in the sand, on the boardwalk, you can easily find hundreds of seductive, tempting, sexually attractive bodies on any given weekend. It's natural. Lots of skin in the sun, loosened inhibitions, it's easy to become aroused. You (imagine yourself at the beach all afternoon) get to pick out, your choice, any 50 people to have sex with over the next year. They're your "harem". During the next one-year period, you get to a) have unlimited, random sex with any of them -- singly or in pairs, whatever!, however many times you choose, they can't say "no" -- or b) you can just choose one of them and have the most fulfilling, deeply emotional monogamous relationship you've ever experienced. Is emotionally fulfilling monogamy better? Or random, animal sex with new bodies? How would you spend the next fantasy year?