This is a rather somber question I have. My wife and I were expecting our 3rd child until a few days ago. My wife went in for testing to make sure that everything was ok. When they did the ultrasound, they discovered that the fetus' heart was no longer beating. My wife had just hit her third month of pregnancy and the doctor figures that the baby died at 10 1/2 weeks. Needless to say we're both heartbroken. We have two healthy children, but we were really looking forwards to one more. This is the last chance to have any more, based on my wife's age. I 'm not really sure how to handle this. My wife is grieving and is blamming herslef. I've tried to tell her that is nonsense, and that this just wasn't meant to be. Better now than at nine months in my opinon. But that doesn't take away the pain she's feeling. If anyone has any helpfull advice, I'd be very gratefull. Thanks in advance.