she usually gives head enthusiastically.She stopped when he had indicated that he would like some oral at that stage of the sex which had already included oral on her.
it seems she got upset when he asked why.
she usually gives head enthusiastically.She stopped when he had indicated that he would like some oral at that stage of the sex which had already included oral on her.
Did you miss the part when he said that he had already given her oral?
You are so sensitive.No..I didn't. And I didn't say that she was acting rationally at the moment. I just said that this type of behaviour reveals some deeper issue.
And did you notice that his statement about giving her oral was an afterthought. Just saying...
No..I didn't. And I didn't say that she was acting rationally at the moment. I just said that this type of behaviour reveals some deeper issue. ..
Drifterwood, If you're referring to me: I'm not having a go at anyone. He asked for help in understanding why it happened. I'm not sure he could have done anything differently that night. I am not condemning him or her. And I applaud his need to find out why.
she hesitated and said she didn't want to. the correct reaction to a lover doing that is to wrap your arms around them as though it really doesn't matter, because being with them is wonderful with or without it.Stopping was the first thing, reacting to the why was the second.
You can't be wanting to have a go at someone for asking why someone reacts in an unusual manner? Do you think he should have just grunted and gone back to fucking her?
Hey Scotsman - I see things a bit differently than the other girls on here. It sounds like you guys have a pretty open sexual relationship and you didn't do anything out of the norm to warrant an apology. She told you how she wanted it, why can't you do the same??? If anything she needs to apologize to you for being a baby about the situation. If she was upset she should have communicated it to you like an adult -NOT pouting on the sofa. She should take you wanting head from her as a compliment. You compromised and had sex when you were tired and wanting sleep. You did it how she wanted and she (and the girls on here) have the nerve to say there could possibly be a titch selfish. REALLY people?! Hahaha, thankfully I am usually thinking rationally. However if that were the case, the other 2 dozen girls commenting on here would think the same way. Unfortunately that isn't the case. Its hard being part of a rare breed given a bad name by drama queens. Oh well ...
and?I'll bet you a pair of Jimmy Choo to a BJ that she had already cum and he hadn't.
i did the opinion thing earlier. it was a good opinion.I didn't imply any of those things.
There's a difference between advice and an opinion on an issue relative to one's own baggage.
^^^see?Think it the other way. What answer to the question "Why don't you want to go down on me today?" would have lead to continue the good sex session that was going on?
- Because I don't feel like it : OK you knew that, so "why?" is not answered, would you ask more? or continue with the same doubt/lack of info/pissed off?
- Because last time I did you did something I didn't like: uh-oh... This is going to take a while and will be a cooler for few days probably
- Because there is something that puts me off right now about sucking you: hmm... sounds like a problem
- Because I always do it and you almost never do that other thing that I like so much: problems around!!!
- ... ?
I'd rather ask about the colour of the new curtains, at least a "fuck the curtains" would'nt break anything
If you want to know why, wait until the next morning while you are having breakfast or something.
and?
he can only cum once, so if you're going to shag then you're not going to get him off first.
he said she's always been enthusiastic about it in the past, so why is her not wanting to that time an injustice?
...and why are women's orgasms something to be got out of the way before proper sex? and why is the end of sex decided by when he cums?