a little concerned

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  1. artartart

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    Not sure if this is the right place to post this, but here we go:

    I've recently started to spend too much time thinking about cam2cam, chatting, browsing, and it's starting to scare me a little bit. I mean, I only started messing around on cam about a week ago but I can already see how people are really addicted to it. I think that's the part that's pressing me the most. I don't know if it's the thrill of the new, or the beginning of an addiction? I usually think of myself as a pretty strong willed person, but this has got me kinda worked up. Sometimes after a session I'll feel really depressed and empty thinking about all of this, almost gut wrenching, and sometimes want to get right back into it. I don't know what my deal is ... It can go on too long and next thing I know hours have gone by. I don't know … any input? Just want to hear what people think or what they've experienced I guess.
     
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    Are you just spending your free time, and enjoying it, or are you neglecting things that you know need to get done?

    How about your social life? Are you finding that you're spending less time with friends, etc?
     
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    Have a similar issue here. At least yours is just online-related. I don't know if this is considered a dependency of some sort, but I'm constantly online whenever I can. When I am not online...I usually am too busy hooking up. I am behind my school work and always late for work cuz I'm cybering online or hooking up with someone before going to work. -_- the thing is...I can see that its messing up my job and school yet I always find an excuse to do it...even if Im in the middle of something important -_-
     
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    Mostly free time, but I have lost sleep in order to get all the things I need done and still have some fun. I can see how it would get out of hand though, and I really don't want that.
     
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