A Man's Worth Is Based on His Dick Size?

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  1. D_Yowton Y Yingyang

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    Upfront let me say I have 5 inches hard. I am on the low end of average. I would like to know just how many guys on LPSG really believe that a man's worth as a man is directly tied to, and only tied to, the size of his penis. For 10+ years I have read posts on LPSG that ridicule men who have "small" dicks. These supposed well hung men, who more often than not never have a pic, go on and on about how possessing a big dick automatically makes them more of a man, and also an exquisite lover.

    I am sorry, but a piece of skin, long or small, hanging off some dude's body doesn't mean shit. As I have said, mine is only 5 inches, but I have had guys with 3 inches and guys with 9 inches get hard over me. I have likewise been in lust over men with as little as 3 inches and as much as 11 inches. In those cases dick size wasn't the factor of my desire, but rather the men themselves. Good looks and a great attitude are what really do it for me, as well as how they conduct themselves as men.

    I have to wonder what some of these jerks with there big dick fixation are really trying to compensate for in their lives by continually ridiculing other men about something as stupid as the size of their dicks. I guess they have much they need to feel better about and their big dick is the only thing they have going for them.

    Str8 and gay alike are guilty of this. You would think though that gay men would generally be more accepting, and supportive, of other gay, and str8 men, but I find that they are the absolute worse offenders when it comes to dishing other guys.

    Thanks for letting me blow some steam off. I'm sure I will get some comments that I am the one that has the problem; all because I only have 5 inches! LOL
     
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    I am not saying a gay man of a paricular mind set is less worthy of respect, however it is cogently obvious many gay men are less ethical about interacting with people than the general population. Experience is no excuse, I know people who have been kicked from pillar to post (and not because of their sexuality) for no reason all their lives and not of their making yet manage to be great folk.
     
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    The answer is in the question.

    When I read a guy bragging about his size with no evidence I assume he's compensating for his lack of size in real life by pretending to have more online, and that the denigration of smaller sizes is a sort of self actualized SPH.
     
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    you know, in the end it's one of the least important things. big or small, you did nothing to deserve it. just enjoy.
     
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    Dude, OBVIOUSLY a man's true worth has nothing to do with the size of his dick. Why would you let a bunch of egomaniacal douche bags get under your skin like that? I have told many peeps that when it comes to dick size, you have to learn to work with what you got. Make it work for you! As far as the size of your dick being the literal measure of who you are as a man, that's just ridiculous, and we all know it. Anyone who actually believes that is not someone worth knowing or getting to know. Don't waste your time. Having been a member here for many years, I have found that it's VERY easy to scope out the cool peeps and the ego-driven fucktards. Once you realize someone is a fucktard, it becomes relatively easy to ignore them, as you should. I have always believed in the power of shame and shunning people who deserve it. Usually, if you ignore someone, they eventually go away or get a clue.
     
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    a) 5 inches isn't small.
    b) Being physically attractive seems to keep one's self-esteem afloat. Won't say anything about worth, but many people place a lot of emphasis on outward appearance.
    c) Having an (insert size here) penis can still give you inadequacy hangups.

    Some people base worth on a person's material "success". Here worth might be strongly orientated towards penis size. Conversational skills can come into account too.

    I can tell you the online people that are interested over my hypothetical penis size outside this forum are far and few.
     
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    You as an individual determine how your worth is defined. Its not defined by having a big cock, as husband or wife, children, a house or any of the other trappings which most people have allowed them selves to be yard sticked by.
     
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    When ANYONE on here brags about size or experiance, always take it with a pinch of salt.
     
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    Great. Nice to see guys on here with their heads (the one with the brain inside) screwed on correctly.
     
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    i've consistently said the opposite, and have seen plenty of others do also. i think it's about what you're looking to read...if you want to believe all these big dicked guys say and believe that, you might tend to filter out other viewpoints. personally, i'm proud to have a big cock, but it's not the end all be all of my person. just one aspect. i think guys who CLAIM having a big cock is the entirety of their worth as a man either don't have too much else going for them, or WISH they had a big cock and are overcompensating for their own feelings of inferiority (same complex that leads so many closeted and repressed homosexuals to exhibit outward homophobia). :p
     
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    Interestingly, I have taken the opposite from my read of LPSG posts. Many members post encouragement to average sized guys.

    As much said, allow a large penis support group to be what is says it is. I think you will find that you can be very welcome here; you can post here to express you own attraction to large penises; you can research, so to speak, issues about penises and size; you can make friends, if friendship is what you want.

    A person’s worth – male or female – should be in what they are, not in what they are not. Luciano Pavarotti’s worth was in his voice; Alex Rodriguez’s is in his baseball; if a hung dude’s life is about being a hung dude, then let that be his worth.

    Do we think that is a good thing: a guy letting his life be about his dick size? Well, I don’t know; I would hope most well endowed guys will make more of their lives than that; but their lives are their's and it is hardly up to us average sized guys to be telling them they shouldn’t value having what we lack.
     
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    That depends on whose end you're talking about.:tongue:
     
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    They subconsciously see themselves as so worthless that they have to claim some sort of genetic birthright so they can feel better than someone else. :( vry sad.
     
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    IF size were really that important in the psycho-social development of mankind, there'd be ALOT more information about the endowments of particular men over the course of history - the scholars, celebrities, soldiers, statesmen, artists and athletes, heroes and villains who fill our history books. As it is, we have no idea how hung Socrates, Ghengis Khan, Abraham Lincoln, Crispus Atticks, Kerouac, Rasputin or Buddha or Clark Gable or Mark Spitz of Michael phelps were or are. And their graves will never reveal that secret, for all the we leave behind are our skeletons - a very ironic and yet revelatory piece of information to keep in mind.
     
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    that's deep.....
     
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    No, penis size does not make the man. I however could see why a women or gay male for that matter wouldn't enjoy sex if your dick is under 5 inches but if it's 5 or over then you should be fine. I think a lot of people try to make it like they know penis size but they don't. Often people will compare an average male to a male that is in porn which isn't smart. I am over 5 1/2 but slightly under 6 inches and I have got compliments on my dick from both males and females on here.
     
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    Penis Size MATTERS

    this page shows how different the lives of a Big Dicked Man and a small penis guy are.
     
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    to be fair, i've had a couple of friends smaller than 5 who've had plenty of satisfied partners, and female friends who've complained about the lack of skill in larger guys. so even in the sexual realm, the only place it actually counts, dick size isn't an absolute indicator of quality or worth.
     
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    so...let me get this straight. small dicked men are naturally subservient and into degradation, while big dicked guys are "real men" who should be able to demand a blowjob whenever they want it?

    if this were any reflection of actual reality, i'd just give up on the human race altogether and go live in a monastery somewhere to wait for some meteor or super virus to put us out of our misery as a species. :p
     
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    Very interesting. I'm not saying guys that are 4 inches can't please women because penis size definitely isn't the only way to please your partner but I'd assume most girls would be more comfortable being with a guy that is at least 5 inches. Totally agreed though that there are guys with huge dicks that have no idea how to please women.
     
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