A Man's Worth Is Based on His Dick Size?

[deleted509196]

Dick size doesn't really matter, it's just people think it does. Everyone is different, and any can be nice regardless of size and what really matters is what the guy attached to it is like.

I had an ex who was small... small enough to be called small, i.e below average... but I liked the guy. I didn't mind his dick, but I imagine he may have felt insecure about it.

Really though, it's a silly thing to feel insecure about. Everyone comes in different shapes and sizes. I get insecurity though, it's not "rational" by any means.

My boyfriend now - he can be pretty big when hard, yeah, at least average but still big (don't know the exact size) but that's not why I love him or anything - I just love him, totally!

Everything comes in all shapes and sizes. Breasts for example - it's not the bigger the better. I think most people (although, OK, a lot DO like big ones) like small/medium ones and a handful - like mine are. I like having smaller (well, medium) boobs. Although I guess that is slightly different to cocks.

So anyway, I think most people should say that size doesn't really matter. OK so this site is focussed on "large penises", hence the name, but I still think of it as more just a website about penises in general... even though there is still that focus on bigger ones. I don't have a preference for massive ones anyway, I think average is fine. Well as I say, they can be nice whatever size and then what really matters also is who is attached to it.

 

[fratpack]

As much as I love a big cock, trust me there is no way I would ever make that the measure of a mans worth. Just for a piece of meat....no thank you. There is so much more that makes up a person that his cock. It is more his character that I measure a man.

 

[D_Portelay Porquesword]

Sounds to me like the size of the mentality should be the point of concern here and not the size of a penis.

 

[68306]

v.v'


Say there are a personal worth and social circle worth...

a) One being how person is "valued" by you.

b) The other being how they are "valued" in your / a social circle.

And then, there is...

c) How much their social "value" is valued by you.


Would that help with the calculations?

 

[wallyj84]

I think that value of a person changes depending on the situation. Some people who might be valuable as say, a business partner, might be worthless as a lover.

So, to answer the question of the OP, in certain situation dick size can at least partly determine the worth of man.

 

[Symphonic]

I guess that makes me, a bum, worth more more than 70% of the planet. Fuck yeah!

 

[Lex]

Sounds to me like the size of the mentality should be the point of concern here and not the size of a penis.

QFT.

 

[xthick7]

If you take offense at some people preferring big dick over little dick, what in the heck are you doing registered on a site dedicated to big dicks?? I think that says it all, right there.

 

[gavlenils]

Size isn't the only thing that matters, obversely. But it doe's matter, for more people than you may think.

 

[unzipped]

I am constantly surprised by how many guys are insecure over their size... Man if it gets hard and works.. WTF.. you got fingers, lips and a tongue to do more for your gal or guy too...

 

[D_Yowton Y Yingyang]

Based on some of these answers I get the impression some of these guys would prevent men under 7 inches from ever reproducing! LOL

 

[the_reverend]

statistically, the more endowed among us are greatly outnumbered...we would do well not to incite a riot among our smaller and more average sized brethren.

 

[vince]

Based on some of these answers I get the impression some of these guys would prevent men under 7 inches from ever reproducing! LOL

You are the OP of the thread and you come up with this? I just read the whole thread and no one said anything remotely close to that. What they said could be summerized as, "it doesn't matter much and a guy is a fool to let cock size be the measure of his worth". One guy said dick size is pretty important but even he qualified it.

You should ask yourself if you are projecting your inadequacies and prejudices about cock size onto all hung men.

 

[D_Circumcisus Skinless]

ALL THIS BANTER IS ENLIGHTENING!, BUT SOME TIMES i GET CONFUSED IN VERY SIMPLISTIC FORUMS SOMETIMES!, IS IT SAFE TO ASSUME A MAN WITH A LARGE COCK HAS NO ABILITY TO HAVE A PERSONALITY OF SOME QUALITY!, OR THAT A MAN WITH AVERAGE ENDOWEMENTS CANNOT BE WITHOUT THE FULL ABILITY TO BE A WORLD CLASS JERK!,,,

i GUESS WHAT I'M TRYING TO SAY IS: IS THIS ALL ABOUT THE WORTH OF THE MAN OR THE WORTH OF THE DICK?...IT SEEMS TO ME, THAT THIS WOULD ALL BE AN INVESTMENT OF SOME SORT OF RELATIONSHIP TO MAKE THAT DETERINATION, THRU ONE NIGHT STANDS OR COMMITTED ONES...OR YES EVEN GROUPS...BUT U STILL HAVE TO ESTABLISH SOMETHING?!, BUT IF UR LOOKIN FOR SOMETHING MORE THAN SELF mASTURBATION...AND PIC'S REALLY DON'T SAY A THOUSAND WORD!, MORE LIKE A FEW WORDS ACCORDING TO THE PIC'S!....WORTH?!, TALK TO'EM AND FIND OUT...WHATEVER HAPPENED TO FRIENDSHIP...OOPS! THATS ANOTHER (RELATION)-SHIP...DON'T GET ME WRONG NOT YELLING FOR GROUPHUGS!!!!!, JUST SAYIN DICK IS DICK, PUSSY IS PUSSY, MAN IS MAN, WOMAN IS WOMAN, PERSONALITY AND GENITALS HAVE NEVER MIXED WELL! OBTW I'M ONE OF THOSE HUGE DICK MEN!

 

[D_Circumcisus Skinless]

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[68306]

IS THIS ALL ABOUT THE WORTH OF THE MAN OR THE WORTH OF THE DICK?...

Well, I found that a clarifying statement...

 

[the_reverend]

if a man thinks his worth is entirely based on his penis size, or thinks someone else has less worth for having a smaller size...then i'd say that's definitely the worth of the dick.

a real man has a dick. he doesn't act like one.

 

[billyporn]

I think a lot of the message is implied rather than direct. I'm an average guy here (6") and know I get a complex sometimes because it seems *every* at some point has the point that the guy is hung. Isn't that supposedly secondary? Turns out it's not. The internet doesn't help matters much. Self-measured size surveys run something like an inch over the scientific ones, in terms of average sizes of the sample group. The porn industry puts out much of the pics but even the amateur sites are going to tend to have guys that are proud of their dicks, and they are probably going to tend to be the larger guys. So this all feeds into this fucked up mentality that the OP is describing.

From a relationship side is where the whole size issue really matters. Fortunately it matters something about 0% in that scenario. A partner isn't going to love you more or less based on your dick size. It's more about getting over the hangups that our modern society drills into our heads about size than it being an issue in real life.

 

[D_Circumcisus Skinless]

well said!!!!

 

[D_Dagleishe Deadlyfarte]

To be honest, I'm just now getting over this issue thanks to LPSG! All my friends were big dick slangers and were getting all the girls just off the rumors of their dicks alone. Often my best friend would talk about his various sex-capades only to conclude that the females basically used him for his dick and weren't really interested in him personally.

Of course, being a young fat black kid, I felt inferior to their big dicks and thus my self-esteem plummeted! But thanks to my obsession with big dicks and how to get them, I joined LPSG, posted my pics, and saw the comments on my dick! And I was pleasantly surprised! Even made a cool connections on here.

So yeah, to answer your question. Yes it could mess with a man's ego, but should it? The answer to that is NO! A big dick with no personality or skill is useless! It's all about using what you got and making the person(s) receiving it very happy with it!

Thanks LPSG for helping me with my issues!