married at 24...kids at 28....now i am 53...still in love...happy...glad i chose wisely...she is 5 yrs older and i think that helped...most older women want a younger guy...i think...and it has worked...and i must say after reading a few post...and living longer than some...having plenty of money has helped through the years....not having to fight over finances sure makes bedtime more fun...i read finances are major cause of divorce..