A mouth is just a mouth question for guys?

[NEWREBA]

I've looked at various comments about oral sex on this site and have heard the old saying from some guys "a mouth is just a mouth" when you're receiving oral sex. Do the guys here think this is really true? What I mean is this: would you accept oral sex from just anyone? unattractive person? another guy you don't know? whoever? Or is this idea just a fantasy that people have who want to entrap a guy? I know myself being a woman, I would never allow any person who I don't like or feel attracted to anywhere near my private parts. What do you all think? :smile:

 

[517141]

I need to like, and care about her. For me, sex without caring is emotionally empty.

 

[deleted405852]

Well speaking from experience, if I am aroused and I also happen to be attracted to the person (friend/stranger/etc.) who wants to pleasure me then yes I will accept it.
Now of course there are caveats, such as whether I'm comfortable with the person/situation.

 

[Biggy1990]

For me, as long as it's a woman, she doesn't have to be great looking. I would love to receive oral from just a "normal" looking girl. But if I truly thought she was hideous I do not think I would be able to maintain an erection. As far as getting it from a guy, I don't know if I could. Although I have never tried lol

 

[B_jeepguy2]

If I find them attractive yes. If not it is staying in my pants

 

[dude_007]

I def disagree a mouth is just a mouth. There has to be some kind of attraction for me to have any kind of sex.

 

[B_Hung Jon]

Cool question, Reba. I feel the same as you do. I don't think I could keep a hard-on without really liking or being attracted to the person giving it. There are people on this site who will send me a message saying they want to suck me off just from looking at my dick. They don't seem to have to see what I look like. Maybe this is partially due to the fact that they're horny at that moment. I have spoken to a few guys on here who will suck a big dick because it's big. That's their only criteria. I'm not sure exactly what goes into people's decision making in that regard. In fact there are people here who put up vids of themselves sucking whoever's dick. I think maybe it's a badge of honor or something like that. Like notches on a bedpost. Just saying.

 

[NumberTwentySix]

Maybe the "any mouth is a good mouth" crew are more into glory holes where they can't see the other person? I won't say I'm as picky when receiving a random bj as I would be for anything else, but there has to me some level of attraction. The question seems sort of counterintuitive though. I mean, I must have been sufficiently attracted to hang out long enough to talk them into blowing me...

 

[IrishWank]

I agree with the general response so far. Id let both guys and girls suck my dick if they were good looking. If there was an ugly girl wanting to suck me off Id refuse, while if a good looking guy gave me the vibe, id let him suck me. Regardless of gender, if they get me hard, they can have their rewards.

 

[FleshlightMouth]

Cool question, Reba. I feel the same as you do. I don't think I could keep a hard-on without really liking or being attracted to the person giving it. There are people on this site who will send me a message saying they want to suck me off just from looking at my dick. They don't seem to have to see what I look like. Maybe this is partially due to the fact that they're horny at that moment. I have spoken to a few guys on here who will suck a big dick because it's big. That's their only criteria. I'm not sure exactly what goes into people's decision making in that regard. In fact there are people here who put up vids of themselves sucking whoever's dick. I think maybe it's a badge of honor or something like that. Like notches on a bedpost. Just saying.

Not quite as simple as that. From the sucker's point-of-view, if I like a dick because of its size and "looks", I don't care at all if the guy has abs of steel or if the face could land him a modeling contract. What's important to me are hygiene and a friendly attitude. The "notches on the bedpost" criterion, if valid at all, applies equally to the guys who are the objects of desire. Many, many times the guy with the big dick will pick the "hot" guy over all others for exactly the same reason, just with different filters: he can simply get the younger, hotter, hairier, smoother, shorter, taller, whatever guy because of his big dick, and the mouth, even under these picky circumstances, is nothing other than "just a mouth". If the guy (or girl) is "hot", the quality of the blowjob doesn't really seem to matter. Just take a look at professional porn: most of the oral scenes (both straight and gay) are terrible, the big cocks (on hot or not so hot guys... Ron Jeremy, anyone?) are paired with attractive (in the eye of the beholder) guys or girls, and eventually all leads to fucking anyway, but that's another story.

So, if attraction to the person (or the ideal fantasy sex partner) trumps over "the mouth", then the guy with the big dick is not really interested in a good blowjob but is instead looking to score just another "notch on the bedpost".

 

[HeBop]

Not quite as simple as that. From the sucker's point-of-view, if I like a dick because of its size and "looks", I don't care at all if the guy has abs of steel or if the face could land him a modeling contract. What's important to me are hygiene and a friendly attitude. The "notches on the bedpost" criterion, if valid at all, applies equally to the guys who are the objects of desire. Many, many times the guy with the big dick will pick the "hot" guy over all others for exactly the same reason, just with different filters: he can simply get the younger, hotter, hairier, smoother, shorter, taller, whatever guy because of his big dick, and the mouth, even under these picky circumstances, is nothing other than "just a mouth". If the guy (or girl) is "hot", the quality of the blowjob doesn't really seem to matter. Just take a look at professional porn: most of the oral scenes (both straight and gay) are terrible, the big cocks (on hot or not so hot guys... Ron Jeremy, anyone?) are paired with attractive (in the eye of the beholder) guys or girls, and eventually all leads to fucking anyway, but that's another story.

So, if attraction to the person (or the ideal fantasy sex partner) trumps over "the mouth", then the guy with the big dick is not really interested in a good blowjob but is instead looking to score just another "notch on the bedpost".

Great Post!!!!!

 

[scottredleter]

Even that toothless Hillbilly in Deliverance knew that some people, "sure do have a pretty mouth."

 

[damnimbi]

But a potenial partner with horrid buckteeth is probably a no no

 

[dude_007]

There are people on this site who will send me a message saying they want to suck me off just from looking at my dick.

I'm sure the hot bod also has something to do with it

 

[maxcok]

Many, many times the guy with the big dick will pick the "hot" guy over all others for exactly the same reason, just with different filters: he can simply get the younger, hotter, hairier, smoother, shorter, taller, whatever guy because of his big dick, and the mouth, even under these picky circumstances, is nothing other than "just a mouth". If the guy (or girl) is "hot", the quality of the blowjob doesn't really seem to matter.

Personally speaking, I could not disagree with this more.

 

[D_Maurice Mountlilly]

nope.

 

[B_Hung Jon]

Not quite as simple as that. From the sucker's point-of-view, if I like a dick because of its size and "looks", I don't care at all if the guy has abs of steel or if the face could land him a modeling contract. What's important to me are hygiene and a friendly attitude. The "notches on the bedpost" criterion, if valid at all, applies equally to the guys who are the objects of desire. Many, many times the guy with the big dick will pick the "hot" guy over all others for exactly the same reason, just with different filters: he can simply get the younger, hotter, hairier, smoother, shorter, taller, whatever guy because of his big dick, and the mouth, even under these picky circumstances, is nothing other than "just a mouth". If the guy (or girl) is "hot", the quality of the blowjob doesn't really seem to matter. Just take a look at professional porn: most of the oral scenes (both straight and gay) are terrible, the big cocks (on hot or not so hot guys... Ron Jeremy, anyone?) are paired with attractive (in the eye of the beholder) guys or girls, and eventually all leads to fucking anyway, but that's another story.

So, if attraction to the person (or the ideal fantasy sex partner) trumps over "the mouth", then the guy with the big dick is not really interested in a good blowjob but is instead looking to score just another "notch on the bedpost".

I disagree. When I'm with a person who I think is attractive, it's not about a "good blowjob". It has nothing to do with how the person uses his or her mouth. It's about a mutual attraction that drives the excitement and connection level. It's also not about notches on the bedpost because the activity is mutual. It's fundamentally about how people respond to each other physically and emotionally which creates a deeper more intense experience. My sense from FM's comment is that he's primarily interested in the person (or his dick) as an object of worship. Obviously by his screen name he's created a persona for himself that emphasizes objectification over connection. Why even have a person give the blow job at all when a "fleshlight" which is a inanimate object can be used for a better physical experience? There's a reason people want to have sex with each other, and it's more about the mutual need for physical and emotional satisfaction rather than trying to manipulate the sexual organs to our wills. Its like the difference between a real woman and a blow-up doll. In this case, maybe I'd use the word "blowing doll".

 

[Chase1600]

The thread is about a “mouth is a mouth, and with FleshlightMouth I think it is whether a cock is a cock. Pretty much, I think he is saying a big cock is a big cock. My dynamic is closer to his than is Jon’s, but even if I’ve got myself in a semi-anonymous situation, I still need to have created in my mind some infatuation, or some intrigue, or some attraction – something – about the guy. It may be on flimsy evidence, nonetheless, at the moment, I’m thinking I know something about this guy that has me in to him.

I couldn’t go in to a glory hole and let the first cock that comes through the hole in to my mouth. I’m easy. I ain’t that easy. Ditto sticking my dick in a mouth.

 

[NEWREBA]

Hey guys, thanks so much for responding to my question. I didn't know how you would all feel about it. Please continue because for me it's a fascinating discussion. It helps me understand male sexuality so much better.

 

[Daisy]

If the guy (or girl) is "hot", the quality of the blowjob doesn't really seem to matter. Just take a look at professional porn: most of the oral scenes (both straight and gay) are terrible, the big cocks (on hot or not so hot guys... Ron Jeremy, anyone?) are paired with attractive (in the eye of the beholder) guys or girls, and eventually all leads to fucking anyway, but that's another story.

This is interesting and very true. Oral sex scenes in porn are just god awful..terrible, total BS. Lots of slobbering and licking and the sucker usually looks grossed out. I'd rather see someone who's not very attractive giving a blowjob the way you do (more like penis worship) then a gorgeous person giving a crappy blowjob.

But it is also interesting to me how many guys say they need some sort of connection. Thats good news.