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this may sound pig-ish but whats the proper way to say "hey lets be fuck buddies." i mean i have no problem being friends and having sex but sometimes that just dont fly. so what does?
 

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Say it just like that but first you have to commit a crime, get convicted, go to prison, and request a cell with a rapist. You should have no problems at all.
 

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So, you're saying you want a way to tell a woman all you want is sex? Not even a casual friendship?

Sorry buddy, wouldn't matter how you phrase that with a bitch like me. If a guy told me all he wants is sex, and nothing more... he'd be getting Nothing from me. At all.

Even when in my 'slut phase', if the guy wasn't willing to kick it and have a smoke & a beer once in awhile he wasn't allowed to fuck this pussy. Period.
 

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Big Duke, if this is with someone you already know, then there may not be a graceful way to transition into that. If you do not have a relationship like this already, then you can always couch it that you are a busy guy with no time for a realtionship, yet you desire (x,y,z here). You can say fuck buddy, you can spell some of it out if you want - monagamous, her married, only daytime - but too many conditions might be too restrictive since your pool of females wanting this type of arrangement might be small to begin with. There is nothing wrong with asking for what would suit you at this point in your life.
 

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When you say "sometimes that don't fly", you mean she might not be into that? You mean, she has not expressed interest and you don't know if she would?

Just tell her honestly what's up (your boner), and express respect for whatever decision or response she makes.
 

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I'm at a loss. I don't even really know what you're asking. Are you currently in a relationship of some type, even friends? Friends that occasionally have sex? That's kind of how I read it.

So you want to downplay the friendship part and focus more on the sex?

Help me out here.
 

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Friends dont let friends go without sex..... worked for me a few times ..... but you have to at least be friends first
 

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this may sound pig-ish but whats the proper way to say "hey lets be fuck buddies." i mean i have no problem being friends and having sex but sometimes that just dont fly. so what does?

I'll be honest, I don't have a ton of hope for ya. The way you pose the question says you don't really get how flirting works. If you really want an answer, there isn't a proper way to say "hey let's be fuck buddies." Be confident and charming and if you actually have anything going for you in those areas, maybe they'll be some chemistry and something will happen. Friends with benefits, fuck-buddies, whatever you want to call it, it's all still relationships. It's not a do you want fries with that kinda deal. And there are plenty of people who simply don't have sex outside relationships. My advice is give up your quest and try meeting a girl you want to get to know, who knows you might get lucky along the way.
 

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I had one dude propose such a thing, and I gave it some thought. But in discussing it, he flat out told me we wouldn't be socializing. No going to dinner ever. No meeting any of his other friends. No "hey wassup" texting. Nothing. Just the scratching of a mutual itch. Fuck that. I am not just a vagina.
 

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all wrong im saying that we could already be friends or becoming friends BUT i want to have a casual sexual relationship as well whats the best way to go about it

I have no clue. It seems to be a situation that evolves naturally.

Friends dont let friends go without sex..... worked for me a few times ..... but you have to at least be friends first

Um. No.