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If my parents had bought a male escort for me to practice with, I would have been creeped out.

The idea doesn't even make sense. A person who is paid to please you isn't going to complain or give feedback regarding how well he's doing finding the clit or going down on a woman or tell him if his moves hit the spot or if she actually orgasmed. She's paid to make sure that he has fun. She has no investment in making sure that he's good in bed with any woman he sleeps with after her. I'd bet he would walk away thinking he's the best lover who ever walked the earth when he doesn't actually know a damn thing.

Some of the best lovers I've been with had little experience but they paid close attention to my reactions and we had chemistry and passion and fun together and that carried over into the bedroom. Discovering sex with someone you're excited and nervous to be with is a memory for him to make on his own, not an experience for him to look back on for the rest of his life and feel shame about, which is what you might be giving him. Leave it alone.
 

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She's paid to make sure that he has fun.

Petite--you'd be amazed how many guys leave a strip club believing that the dancer really liked them. And no matter how many times you say, "She works for tips," he'll still say, "But this one is different!"
 

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Petite--you'd be amazed how many guys leave a strip club believing that the dancer really liked them. And no matter how many times you say, "She works for tips," he'll still say, "But this one is different!"

Too bad that acting talent goes to waste. Some of those girls deserve an Academy Award.
 

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Petite--you'd be amazed how many guys leave a strip club believing that the dancer really liked them. And no matter how many times you say, "She works for tips," he'll still say, "But this one is different!"
Maybe it stems from their dads buying them hookers to learn how to have sex on.
 

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Maybe I'm a bit stuffy, but to me hiring your kid a prostitute so he can practice his sexual techniques is an obscene notion. If one of my friends told me one day that he hired a prostitute for his kid for that purpose I would be totally creeped out, and I probably wouldn't talk to the poor slob ever again. It just goes completely against what I think parenthood should be all about.
 

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lets face it, sexual powess is an important part of relationships succeeding. All men want thier sons relationships with women to be successful. There is no better teacher, than real world experience. Do you think it would be wrong, if you had a teenage son, to hire a woman, not necessarily an escort, for him to practice on, and give him advice?

i would only do that if my son had no game at all

like if he was 18 and he was consistently shut down time after time getting stuck in the friend zone, then i'd do something like take him out on the town with me and play wing man for him and find the easiest skeezer in the bar, club, wherever we're at and give him pointers to get him laid

but at the end of the day if you don't have the skills to get laid, you shouldn't... that is something you can't learn in a textbook
 
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I'd much rather my son be a fabulous fag. I might hire a woman to help him with his wardrobe, decorating skills, or cooking ability...if needed.
 

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Petite--you'd be amazed how many guys leave a strip club believing that the dancer really liked them. And no matter how many times you say, "She works for tips," he'll still say, "But this one is different!"

i never understood the appeal of a strip club

yeah there's an abundance of ass and titties all over the place, but if you think about it, everywhere in the world is an abundance of ass and titties, is it really worth it?

why would you go to a place and throw X amount of dollars at some random chick who's job is to literally drain your pockets (regular relationships will already do that to you) to get cock teased? 99% of my friends who go to a strip club leave the club with nothing but empty pockets, blue balls and an unlimited supply of glitter sprinkled all over their person

and those guys who say "but she's different" are the same suckers you see in this hilarious music video

Captain Save A Hoe - YouTube
 

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I might hire a woman to help him with his wardrobe, decorating skills, or cooking ability...if needed.
Im pretty sure doing this would help a young man to be more successful in the social scene than hiring 1000 prostitues
 
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Maybe it stems from their dads buying them hookers to learn how to have sex on.

:lmao:

And it comes full circle.

Maybe I'm a bit stuffy, but to me hiring your kid a prostitute so he can practice his sexual techniques is an obscene notion. If one of my friends told me one day that he hired a prostitute for his kid for that purpose I would be totally creeped out, and I probably wouldn't talk to the poor slob ever again. It just goes completely against what I think parenthood should be all about.

This was my reaction to the idea of interfering with your kid's sex life like that. Other than teaching them about STDs and stuff like how people with respect and showing him by example how to get along with a partner, I consider losing his virginity to be a part of the things he needs to discover on his own as he becomes a man.


Im pretty sure doing this would help a young man to be more successful in the social scene than hiring 1000 prostitues
I know I've told you this before, but you're very wise sometimes.