doubtless_mouse: Ok, this may bother some people, but wanted to say something. If this is a support group for men/women who are trying to cope with larger than average penises, should people preach when a youngster asks a question about sex?
The reason I ask this is this topic was started by someone who is obviously looking for support, not platitudes about what they should or shouldn't do.
Age of consent is an age defined by the law, but shouldn't it also be defined by the individual. Many youg people today are mature enough to make this desicion on their own (though would agree that some are not). As a society we are forcing our children to mature faster than when I was a kid.
I can understand encouraging the poster to practice safe sex, that should be said, but most comments were about his age and not having sex. This is his choice, at least he has the mental facilities to do some homework prior to jumping in. The young man is trying to find out if he needs to be careful because of the size of his dick, seems like he has more on his mind than just scoring with some chick.
I understand that each and every person has their own moral beliefs, but would hate to see someone come here for advice (especially someone younger) and be turned off because they felt like they were being preached at by more adults.
I am 33 years old (god I hated saying that), yet I still remember what it was like trying to get advise when I was a teenager. I would ask an adult something about sex, and instead of getting the advise I needed, I would get the long sermon about the virtues of abstinence and saving myself...these sermons never stopped me from having sex, but the advise that i was looking for may have made the sex i did have better. Likewise might have prevented a few trips to the doctor for me as well (no one really ever talked to me about STD's/safe sex so I had to learn the hardway).
I guess what i am saying is maybe giving the advice asked for might be better.