This being my first post I'm going to attempt to be succinct, tactful, and hopefully not a complete moron. My wonderful wife and I are married now for just under 2 years and together for 4. During our time together she has made me feel extremely manly in the fact that she constantly compliments me on how "good" I feel and how "big" I feel to her. This has helped greatly with my poor self esteem. Esteem I felt was damaged by the harsh words and actions of a previous love. Couple that with the obsessive need to feel adequate shared by most men and it can be a very real burden. I am about to start on a basic PE regimen, after discussing it with her at length and one of my main concerns is that I may gain too much or become "uncomfortable" for her during intercourse. She likes to be on top usually with a vibe for clitoral stimulus while grinding. This is her "spot" as you might say. She is a relatively short lady and even tests have shown her lady bits to be more "compact" than most. My concern is that I might hurt her or make our sex life uncomfortable, yet I am still dealing with my own self esteem issues. I'm about average, not sure about girth but I know I'm just over 6 in length which suits her just fine. My goal of being succinct has failed I see but I'm not sure how to ask or what to ask in entirety. So do any of the wise women who read these forums have any advice? Again I apologize for the length of this post and if I have somehow offended anyone here. I thank you all in advance for your time and your patience in dealing with someone new to this.