Reminds me of a wise decision I made when I had my first genuine sex experience. It was with the new guy in town and we had bonded in friendship bordering on the true love it became. We both considered oursleves to be regular guys; there were no models for m2m loving relationships--certainly not m2m sexual relationships. Fortunately, we did what came naturally and it all seemed so right; we were two happy fellows who learned by doing and were smart enought to keep it to ourselves.
Yet, the morality snoops would have had a field day had they known of our relationship. Thanks to the wonderful zone of privacy we had at his home, that did not happen. But, we agreed that what happened sexually between two persons was so personal that it should remain private. We were richer for having discovered the joys to be had on a side of our sexuality which we had not even considered before. Blabbing about one's sexual activities has never appealed to me. What the public sees is all that they are entitled to. And, with family and friends who are decent enough not to probe, the aura of mystery that surrounds sex is preserved and the enjoyment of sex is not put in jeopardy by outsiders.
Yet, the morality snoops would have had a field day had they known of our relationship. Thanks to the wonderful zone of privacy we had at his home, that did not happen. But, we agreed that what happened sexually between two persons was so personal that it should remain private. We were richer for having discovered the joys to be had on a side of our sexuality which we had not even considered before. Blabbing about one's sexual activities has never appealed to me. What the public sees is all that they are entitled to. And, with family and friends who are decent enough not to probe, the aura of mystery that surrounds sex is preserved and the enjoyment of sex is not put in jeopardy by outsiders.