A question for hung men. Do u like if your partner is in awe of your size?

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Do you like it when you're in bed someone holds your dick and says something like "gawd thats huge" in a genuine way and not in that superficial porn way. i have a decent sized dick and im a btm (dont really care about by dick). What is it like for someone who grew up with a big dick? did you think of it as ordinary or did you know very soon?

Ive been hanging out with someone who has a super massive cock, met him via bumble and didnt ask for dick pics before met. i love seeing him in briefs cooking in the kitchen and i give him compliments in and out of bed (sometimes i think he notices me staring it) but he doesnt really say anything. most i get is a slight grin. am i making him awkward?
 

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Do you like it when you're in bed someone holds your dick and says something like "gawd thats huge" in a genuine way
I'm not sure it's much of a turn on for me anymore, but I still enjoy a compliment when handed one. Though I find these types of comments really hot the few times I still hear it from friends/partners I've been hooking up with for years now, 20+ years in some cases.

What is it like for someone who grew up with a big dick?
Maybe I'm misunderstanding the question but I imagine like anyone else? haha. Nice to have but I wasn't doing much with it as a kid.

did you think of it as ordinary or did you know very soon?
No, I knew very young.

i love seeing him in briefs cooking in the kitchen and i give him compliments in and out of bed (sometimes i think he notices me staring it) but he doesnt really say anything. most i get is a slight grin. am i making him awkward?
It comes with the territory of being well endowed. I've had straight married men whose families are just on the other side of the door unapologetically stare at my dick in urinals.
You guys are sleeping together. I highly doubt it bothers him, if anything it's probably a turn on for him he has something you enjoy.
 

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Yep. Done PE for most of my adult life as well, went from being ordinarily hung to quite very large at points. It impresses me let alone anyone else. I love it, most gays seem to. There are very few guys that are like these mythical girls that will prefer something average so they can be comfortable during sex
 

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I'm not sure it's much of a turn on for me anymore, but I still enjoy a compliment when handed one. Though I find these types of comments really hot the few times I still hear it from friends/partners I've been hooking up with for years now, 20+ years in some cases.


Maybe I'm misunderstanding the question but I imagine like anyone else? haha. Nice to have but I wasn't doing much with it as a kid.


No, I knew very young.


It comes with the territory of being well endowed. I've had straight married men whose families are just on the other side of the door unapologetically stare at my dick in urinals.
You guys are sleeping together. I highly doubt it bothers him, if anything it's probably a turn on for him he has something you enjoy.
Do they stare or glance?
 

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Do you like it when you're in bed someone holds your dick and says something like "gawd thats huge" in a genuine way and not in that superficial porn way. i have a decent sized dick and im a btm (dont really care about by dick). What is it like for someone who grew up with a big dick? did you think of it as ordinary or did you know very soon?

Ive been hanging out with someone who has a super massive cock, met him via bumble and didnt ask for dick pics before met. i love seeing him in briefs cooking in the kitchen and i give him compliments in and out of bed (sometimes i think he notices me staring it) but he doesnt really say anything. most i get is a slight grin. am i making him awkward?
Yes it turns me on, especially when it comes from someone I have fun in bed with.
I realized that I had a massive vessel at a relatively young age (at the beginning of puberty) and I always loved it.
I like being complimented on him.
 

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I’m above average in size, plus I’m uncut. I enjoy the compliments to a certain degree, but there have been times when I know that the guy is only interested in what’s between my legs and not the rest of me. That can sting a bit.
 

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I was very shy sexually growing up due to trauma (If you know what I mean). It wasn't until about 28 I actually started getting comfortable with myself. At 30 I had a sexual awakening, and it was only then I realised just how big my cock is. I've had MANY encounters over the years, different partners, some have been really fine and complimentary about it, others almost some like they were emasculated because I was bigger. I guess penis size is something we focus on alot in society and is seen as such a 'manly' thing. Like one of the posters above, I'm at the point now where pretty much I enjoy the compliment but its almost like yep, stating the fact and it doesnt really do much for me anymore, as there is more to a person than just a size of a cock.
 
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I was very shy sexually growing up due to trauma (If you know what I mean). It wasn't until about 28 I actually started getting comfortable with myself. At 30 I had a sexual awakening, and it was only then I realised just how big my cock is. I've had MANY encounters over the years, different partners, some have been really fine and complimentary about it, others almost some like they were emasculated because I was bigger. I guess penis size is something we focus on alot in society and is seen as such a 'manly' thing. Like one of the posters above, I'm at the point now where pretty much I enjoy the compliment but its almost like yep, stating the fact and it doesnt really do much for me anymore, as there is more to a person than just a size of a cock.
sorry that u had to go through that. i get what you mean i think about enjoying the compliment but its like just stating a fact
 

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Not sure if I’ve ever truly felt ‘hung’, although I do like to flaunt it on here.

Hate being with someone smaller when they’re obviously insecure about it, especially if the insecurity turns to petty behaviour or insults directed at me.

Love it when a guy is confident regardless of size differences! Definitely a turn on!