A Question for the bi, curios, str8 guys

Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by Rowan Ravenseed, Nov 7, 2009.

  1. Rowan Ravenseed

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    As a male sex worker in a small town a large population of my clientele are married str8 or bi/ curios guys..... the rules are always different for each guy regarding what they will and wont do...... but i have found the majority of my clientele come to see me because they want to suck cock or be fucked.

    So I'm curios.... as a bi/curios/str8 guy what kinda things do you like getting up to with other man and what are your limitations?

    I did want to attach a poll to this but unfortunately wasn't quick enough so generally what i'm looking for is something along the lines of

    would you only masturbate with another guy, would you only receive would you wank another guy too

    would you have oral with another guy, you you only receive or would you suck too

    Anal ... the same give or receive or both?

    Rimming, give or recieve or both?

    Kissing, touching

    Also what are your favorite things and what gets you off the most
     
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    I am fussy, in that I am not attracted to many guys.. but every now and then there is one :) If I watch straight porn I often look at the guys and think I would love to have their cocks. I tend to be interested in cocks so not keen on kissing, cuddling etc (prefer girls for that!)

    So if I was with Porn star Julian or Scott Nails for example, I would wank him and be wanked by him, I would blow him and let him blow me. By the way I have wanked other guys and given + received blow jobs when I was at an all boys boarding school and was surrounded by horny 16 yr olds 24/7 ! but not for years. I have some gr8 stories and fond memories :)

    As for anal.. I am curious but have never tried. I do masterbate with anal sex toys (and my gf uses them on me when she blows me) so fully appreciate the appeal. For the right guy I might try, but not sure. As for rimming etc.. I would let a guy do it to me but have zero interest in returning the favour.

    If I fantisize about a cock I would usually imagine I am a girl sucking or fucking them.. I guess my mental images of straight sex are more vivid that gay sex.

    I have kissed a couple of guys, mostly when very drunk or on ecstacy, but not really interested. For me it's about handling a big hard cock, and sucking it.. something a girl can't offer me. The rest I can get from girls who I find more attractive.

    Hope that helps :)
     
  3. biguy2738

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    Heya Rowan

    We're a complex bunch, aren't we? :biggrin1:

    I think that the rules vary from person to person because of the way that we experience our bisexuality, whether we are homo/biphobic or not and our level of comfort with being bi, our domestic situations (is he cheating on his wife etc) coupled with how we view romance etc.

    ...we're bound to keep you on your toes LOL.

    With this in mind, I need to first explain where I am coming from with the hope that it will help you to understand why I am able to enjoy various kinds of intimacy with men in the way that I do. I think that giving you a superficial answer won't be of as much use to you.

    My situation is as follows:

    1) I experience bisexuality in ways that enable me to seek out and enjoy being in a deep loving relationship with a guy ie lovers etc. and I have an equal attraction for men and women (and this attraction is stable, there aren't fluctuations etc). The most important aspect of how I experience things is the fact that I can't do the nameless/random hookup deal. I need to connect with the person and there needs to be an emotional attachment.

    2) I am comfortable being bi and I don't have any homo/biphobia; I couldn't care less if people perceive me to be gay, straight or bi, for me all orientations are of equal value.

    3) I am out to my wife and I have her consent to be in relationships with men, so I don't experience conflict or guilt.

    I suspect that this information already gives you an idea of the kind of contact that I enjoy.

    On the physical intimacy side of things:
    - I luuuurve to kiss, lick and nibble
    - hold hands,
    - cuddle,
    - caress
    - spoon etc.
    I really, REALLY enjoy this a lot and it's a big deal for me; it's a valuable part of my sexuality.

    When it comes to sexual intimacy:
    - I enjoy mutual masturbation (giving and receiving),
    - I lurve oral sex (also giving and receiving...69ing is hawt)
    - I enjoy anal sex (topping and bottoming) - with the right guy and with the right approach....WOWSER!!
    - I have an issue with rimming (giving and receiving). I have to really, REALLY love the guy before I am open to it and desire for it to be part of our intimacy. This has only been the case on one occasion (my last relationship with a guy).

    When it comes to being rimmed, it's hard to explain but it makes me feel INCREDIBLY vulnerable on an emotional level...so I need to love and trust the guy very much before I am willing and able to open myself up to him emotionally like that.

    When it comes to rimming someone, it's an issue for me. I realise that it's because of my mindset but I can't overlook where I'll be putting my mouth and what purpose of the anus serves (I'm trying to be polite :biggrin1:). The guy can be squeaky clean...I think that even if he bronzed his tushy, I'd still have issues. However, it changes when I am deeply in love with someone. My willingness and desire to do so then comes from a place of deep love and my desire to give him all of me in every possible way and to bring him as much pleasure as possible.

    For me, the emotional and physical intimacy are the things that I crave and enjoy the most.
     
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    I don't know. Jerking is the thing that crosses my mind the most and looks like fun to do. Maybe some oral... rather have them do that on me... anal... not sure
     
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    I'd receive oral and HJ. Would consider giving BJ and have given HJ. No anal, No kissing. Spooning and other touching, nice. Nipples, yes. What has turned me on most is cock to cock masturbation and continuing with great cum as lube. I'd love receiving a great BJ from another man! I'd like to have a JO buddy too.
     
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    I do all of that except the rimming. If someone likes to give, then whatev but I just can't bring myself to give. Also, I tend to top more often than bottom when i'm with guys, but I've been known to take it in the pooper before
     
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    I value reciprocity. I enjoy being with guys who like to give and receive whatever. I'm a little disappointed, and less likely to spend time with a guy who will only give or take some sort of action. That said, I very much enjoy holding, caressing, fondling, stroking a man, as a part of foreplay. Kissing not so much. I enjoy the sense of closeness and of strength and power, directness, and independence. What comes next varies and I've enjoyed all, but I've not rimmed a guy and am not seeking the experience. Superficially I'm a top, but will reciprocate if an appropriate level of trust is present.
     
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