A question for the forum

[D_smack ash]

Is it right or has it happen to anyone else here about this.Do you find your self having feelings and thoughts about a girl whose 15 to 20 yrs younger than you.Is it the hormones acting up or what.I have become friends with one and well i dont know the feelings are crossing back and forth in head.Just wondering if i should ignore,act or just keeping them to myself.Has this happen to anyone else or am i a freak

 

[Yorkie]

It all depends on how old you are.If you're 50 there's nothing freakish about fancying a 30 year old.But if you're 30 and fancy someone 20 years younger that's another story.....

 

[D_smack ash]

i am 40 shes 22

 

[whatireallywant]

It all depends on how old you are.If you're 50 there's nothing freakish about fancying a 30 year old.But if you're 30 and fancy someone 20 years younger that's another story.....

I agree! And it works for women too - I'm 44 and I think 24 year old men are HOT!!

 

[Mr. Snakey]

Is it right or has it happen to anyone else here about this.Do you find your self having feelings and thoughts about a girl whose 15 to 20 yrs younger than you.Is it the hormones acting up or what.I have become friends with one and well i dont know the feelings are crossing back and forth in head.Just wondering if i should ignore,act or just keeping them to myself.Has this happen to anyone else or am i a freak

Yes.................................:wink: :smile:Your not a freak. As long as they are of legal age

 

[whatireallywant]

i am 40 shes 22

You're fine...It works both ways too... when I was a 40 year old woman I could've gone for a 22 year old man. Hey, even at 44 I could go for a 22 year old man! :tongue: I doubt that I'd want anyone 20 years older than me though. 10 years older is fine though. And my longest term relationship was with a man over 11 years older than me.

 

[Yorkie]

i am 40 shes 22

She's an adult so there's nothing freakish about it.People with larger age gaps than that get together.

 

[Principessa]

I agree! And it works for women too - I'm 44 and I think 24 year old men are HOT!!

I had sex with an adorable 26 year old last week and I'm 41.

I am 40 shes 22

Well at least she's legal. :tongue:

Is it right or has it happen to anyone else here about this. Do you find your self having feelings and thoughts about a girl whose 15 to 20 yrs younger than you. Define feelings and thoughts. Are you just thinking , "Damn I wanna tap that ass?" Or are you actually thinking of her as having girlfriend potential? Is it the hormones acting up or what. I have become friends with one and well i dont know... the feelings are crossing back and forth in head. Just wondering if i should ignore, act or just keeping them to myself. Has this happen to anyone else or am i a freak

Well you are definetely, not a freak. I think that as baby boomers age this will become even more common.

 

[whatireallywant]

I had sex with an adorable 26 year old last week and I'm 41.

I'm envious - where's MY 26 year old? :tongue:

 

[D_Al_K_Celtzah]

I'm envious - where's MY 26 year old? :tongue:

Will a 24 old do?

 

[OPPinSLC]

You are not a freak. I'm 44 and my girlfriend is 29. When we met she was 25 and I was 40. It can work.

 

[amiegrrl]

I've been attracted to 40+ yr-old men Nothing freakish about it.

 

[DC_DEEP]

Yes.

 

[SpoiledPrincess]

Nothing freaky about it - she's a grown up not a kid.

 

[B_Rivas_Boricua4Ever]

She's an adult so there's nothing freakish about it.People with larger age gaps than that get together.

Agreed.