Like many, many gay guys I'm fairly versatile.
In general I like to fuck, but I'll often switch up and enjoy taking cock too.
There are a lot of threads here about what bottoms want, but I'm curious to hear from the vers guys! I know everyone is different, so let's hear your thoughts. For example:
What makes you want to bottom?
How often?
How important is foreplay?
Is there only a certain type of top you want?
How do you like to get fucked?
Do you prefer specific positions?
Do you need certain things to enjoy it?
Do you care who comes first?
What really ticks your box?
First let me say I don't really consider myself gay...……..but I am way past any line of just curiosity...………….because I am not able to go home from school until at least Sunday, my gf came to campus today...…...we have fucked 5 times over the course of the day in every imaginable position...…...it is totally fucking amazing...……..
BUT, I have done enough with enough guys over the last couple years to know that now matter how spent my nuts feel, there is another reserve of cum deep inside of me somewhere and right now I am craving a huge cock up my ass to wring that reserve out through my piss slit with such force it takes my breath away...…………...
So to answer the questions...…….
What makes you want to bottom? That is a bit tricky even at this point, my memories of past times more than anything, seeing a cock that I have had experience with before, that will do it. One of the big things is, the more I fuck my girl, another dude, my hand, whatever...……..the more I want...…..no need to get fucked big time, I need that deep cum reserve punched out of me. I have a very hot very willing gf who has never said no to sex since several years before we were old enough to talk about it on here, so I don't ever get to the point of craving a place to put my dick, when I need more, it is definitely a need to bottom. Although I do both.
How often? In my current environment rich in hot willing guys it is sometimes daily, actually it is sometimes many times a day. Then I go home and be a perfect boyfriend and unless someone who has done me before is around I wont think about it for a few days.
How important is foreplay? Mental preparedness is the main thing. If getting slicked up is foreplay, then yeah. If you mean do I need a blow job or something before I get fucked, then no, not normally. When we started doing stuff together we (the guys I fuck around with) decided kissing would be off limits...……...hind sight and all, I would say that is a big mistake...…….guys can kiss and not feel like sissy's or anything and its super hot and really ramps up the results, but kissing has never been a part of foreplay. Ongoing foreplay and kissing is very important when I am with like one guy all night and we may fuck each other several times each.
Is there only a certain type of top you want? No, but a hot guy with a throbbing cock and a pleading needy look on his face will always do it.
How do you like to get fucked? If the guy is taller than me and a good long cock (my preference), I prefer standing up holding onto the doorframe or shower pole for dear life, better if I can get one foot up on something like a chair or upside down bucket or bed rail. I guess I am kind of confused between the how question and the specific position question. But I am not with a guy to make love, I want and need and crave getting fucked in the manliest way possible. Grab my waist, hold me so you can fuck harder and deeper.........definitely deeper...…..
Do you prefer specific positions? If I will need to beat off to get off with a guy I like being on my back looking at him, legs up high, I can hold them or he can. If he is capable of fucking the cum out of me with no further assistance needed by my dick, then standing or leaning over somewhat is my preference.
Do you need certain things to enjoy it? Cum, lots of cum, his mine, whatever.
Do you care who comes first? Prefer he cums first and keeps on going, it totally changes the game when he is fucking into a puddle of his own cum in my ass so the second time is like a whole different event.
What really ticks your box? ………….everything I just talked about...………..I have come to realize there is 3 distinct ways I can cum from sex with a guy.
The first and I guess usually the best is when the guy has ample length, doesn't have to be thick, but he can over and over pound into or just tap at "that spot", unrelenting tapping on "that spot", clear stuff starts appearing on my dick slit, then its dripping out like honey, thick on it way down......usually hanging free from the end of my dick bouncing around some as I get fucked till the flood gates open and the real goo follows...…...
the second is when a guy is so thick you ass hurts, burns to be more specific...……….on and on it burns as the guy rails on your ass, punishing your asshole over and over...….sometimes its not as bad after they get their head through, sometimes it is...……..in those times I can feel my adrenaline ramp up, my testosterone build, then my adrenaline ramp up even more, the more it burns the higher my T high gets...…….I get somewhat the same reaction when I get hit in a wrestling match, especially if I get hit in the nuts or a knee to the head or elbow to the shin or something.....my body reacts to allow me to counter the pain...…...with no fight to win when I am getting fucked like would be the case in a match...…...all the extra hormones go to my nuts and start churning out the stuff...……..then barely a touch to my cock after some time of all that and I just explode...….
Then there is a mental aspect to it, when the situation or the partner is just set up so you know it will be hard to meet your expectations, sometimes I am almost to the point of blowing my load by the time I am penetrated...…...
Then the real winners are when you can combine a couple of those...…………...wow...…….