A question for those women over 30

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How many years are we talking about here? I mean yes, it's changed over the past 42 years, but it's probably not in the way you think. When I was younger I wanted one, any size, just so I could pee outside without having to squat. I'm dead serious. My Dad and cousins could easily just stand on the side of the trail and let it go while I had to find bushes somewhere to hide.

So I guess that's enough reason.
 

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Nope. Never cared about size and never gave it a thought unless it was extremely small/big. It's always been about the man for me.

The only thing that may have changed, is while I may have had patience with a man who had concerns about his penis size prior to my time here, now I would fast and run far! I had no idea how many men live with intense fun-house views of their own bodies. It reminds me of anorexia, so distorted is the view of self. It saddens me because i think some of these men really need help, but i am not the one to do it. I couldn't have sex with a man like that, much less be in a relationship.

Anyway, that's been the only change for me.
 

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Sort of into Neanderthal myself. It's quasi-beastiality.
 

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Why over 30?
I was interested to know if your thoughts on the matter had changed over time. That's something which a 20 year old hasn't had much opportunity to experience.

The question came about from a really good recent conversation with my very first love. While we talked about all sorts of things, our sex life came up and she confessed that at first she really didn't enjoy my size--more pain than pleasure, but grew to really like it after a short while. I had always had more than an inkling about that, but never to the degree that she had just told me; she did a good job of hiding her early misgivings. She also told me that it isn't really an issue for her at all now: finding someone with a dick of any size who's worthy of sleeping with is a bigger concern. Good conversations always leave me thinking for a few days afterwards. One of those thoughts is how our preferences for partners evolves. Myself, I've found that most physicalities have become less and less important, as when I enjoy a woman's company I always find unique aspects of her to be immensely appealing.
 

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I struggle with these types of questions, I really do. I've never selected the dick before the man, so how do I answer that? I'm fucking the man and the dick that comes with him. It's masculinity that turns me on - I like manly men and I always have. Although I can really appreciate a traditionally good looking guy on tv, or in the abstract, I have never really been attracted to pretty boys in real life. The only thing that has changed over time is my tolerance for bullshit.
 

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I never had a preference for size. Like redz, I chose dudes, and if I wanted to fuck them, I accepted whatever they came with. (Heh) I do know much better now about size insecurity. And I'm not interested in any man who is going to let that insecurity interfere with our nookie. He has to work that drama out elsewhere. No trying to trick me into "admitting" a preference for bigger. No adamant insistence that he be the best I ever had, either. Hope for that shit in your head and don't say it out loud. I have lain with dozens; the odds of any one person being the best I ever had grows smaller all the time. Let's just try really hard to be the best for each other, but not get all emo about it. Yeah.
 

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I always believed that it was "the motion of the ocean" (probably just because girls are always brought up to be nice and not hurt someone's feelings) but now that I'm older, the size of the ship is far more important up to a point....still need to know what you're doing. I think what brought me to that conclusion is playing with bigger and bigger toys....and reading more about the subject, talking about it more with my husband and loosening up.....about the subject that is, although it is probably true literally too, ha ha!!
 

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Has your preferences (or lack of) about cock size changed over the years? If so, has there been anything in your past which you can point to as the reason for this? Thanks!

Nope. I've been married for nearly 25 years so, obviously, my taste in men has not changed! As for cock size, even though my lover is larger than my husband, it's more or less a novelty to me. It's probably been said a thousand times, just at this site; There's more to a man than a large cock.:biggrin1: