A Question for You VERY Well Endowed Guys

[paskharen]

This is a great set of questions as I have Always looked at porn with girls who seem to be in pain and wondered if that stuff brought anyone who watched it some form of arousal. It may be a fetish, but it may also be a sign that they need to "talk" to someone... IMO

I am a dominant male and thoroughly enjoy light bondage, anal, doggy, facials, and deep hard, intense fucking, but never has it been about humiliating or hurting anyone. I am turned on when I sense or know that I'm the most intense, longest, best, deepest or thickest cock that has ever fucked them. The squeals, grunts, yelps, and gasps seem to make my cock as hard as steel; I assure you it has nothing to do with enjoying your pain or your difficulties adjusting to my cock - I want to give you the best fucking ever! When you have a body shaking orgasm or I feel that warm liquid release inside your pussy; something clicks, I think I grow an extra inch and I start to fuck like a machine - full strokes, pushing deep so you can have another - for me, its not just about my own pleasure, its more about bringing you pleasure. I have to believe its something primal...

(1) YES, It does increase my pleasure to know that you are being stretched. It's stimulating and exciting when I first open you up with my cock - again, it’s all about pleasure, not pain. That first gasp followed with "Oh, My God" is such a turn on... However, sex can easily get very frustrating and/or downright disappointing if I can’t get in or you don’t adjust... In addition, if you’re not really enjoying it - it’s a real bummer. I want natural lubrication, deep grinding, and full length squatting with squeals of delight.

(2) Yes, I can’t recall a time where I didn’t want to give her my entire cock, as deep and as hard as I could pound her, but not because she was uncomfortable or couldn't handle my penis. Again, quite a turn off if she isn't enjoying it. I've had a few girls really TRY to get my cock in them, and I always obliged and cooperated, but it was never a turn on with a tiny vagina, regardless of how hot she was or how much we both wanted to simply fuck.

With that said, I had a roommate once who brandished an enormous penis; we tag teamed LOTS of girls during that period of our lives (he was a super slut) and I think it was more about of us competing with each other to see who could get more orgasms out of the girl or simply who could fuck harder than the other. Definitely primal - not evil. I'm fairly confident there were lots of girls who had no trouble remembering the how good they were fucked, days, weeks, months and maybe even years later; for some reason, it’s a good feeling to know you brought her more pleasure than others.

(3) Teach you a lesson and fuck the living shit out of you are two entirely different things. I want to fuck you so hard and make you orgasm so many times that when you stand up, your legs give out, and you fall to the floor. If there's a lesson there, it’s to have sex with me again, not mean spirited evil harsh reasons. Anyone coming from the position of harm or to hurt you is really fucked up.

Overall, it’s a turn on to see you squirm and squeal while your stretched open as it is to be balls deep and you have a crying trembling orgasm. Mission accomplished.

You said it.

 

[Markym01]

(1) Does it increase your pleasure and satisfaction to know that your size is a real challenge to your lady friend?
Yes

(2) When it was evident that your lady friend was being "overmatched" by your penis did you press ahead thinking that "she wants it and she's going to get it" or "she's been teasing me all night and now she's going to get it" or "I'm going to make sure that she has trouble walking tomorrow morning" or "she knew I was big and now she's going to take it" or anything like that?
I guess all of the above but more common would be "she knew I was big and now she's going to take it"

(3) Have you ever delayed your orgasm so that you could extend her "challenge" and maybe "teach her a lesson"?
Admittedly yes I have

 

[mako shark]

No to all three questions, even if I poke a size queen I'm deliberate and never try to hurt my partner. Once they are really wet and horny I can get a little more aggressive, but not too much.

 

[Captain Elephant]

(1) Does it increase your pleasure and satisfaction to know that your size is a real challenge to your lady friend? Yes.

Absolutely not. The pleasure has to be mutual. Offering a challenge makes it a game. And in a game there are winners and losers. Everybody has to win here.

(2) When it was evident that your lady friend was being "overmatched" by your penis did you press ahead thinking that "she wants it and she's going to get it" or "she's been teasing me all night and now she's going to get it" or "I'm going to make sure that she has trouble walking tomorrow morning" or "she knew I was big and now she's going to take it" or anything like that? Depends on the situation, but if she's willing its all hands on deck.

No. If there is resistance I stop. There have been times when I thought things were going well only to find out that it's not going to happen. The festivities have to stop. Fortunately, my partner is very creative in making sure that everybody is happy. But penetration just isn't going to be in the cards this time.

(3) Have you ever delayed your orgasm so that you could extend her "challenge" and maybe "teach her a lesson"? Yes.

What kind of lesson would she learn from that? Not to have sex with me again? I have never delayed my orgasm on purpose, but I've had to speed it up because I know it can be tiring to her. She has never asked if I'm "finished yet." But I know the body language. The older I get the more stamina I seem to have, and that's not always a good thing. She's asked how I can last so long, and I tell her because when I orgasm then it's all over. And it feels too good to end.

 

[XCentralCasting8in]

It's not a power or control thing and it's not in any way masochistic. It's more about the rebound interplay of libidos. What the turn on has to do with is the instant feedback of natural stimulus, the give and take of the reaction itself rather than anything you might wanna read into it. Look at it as a reflex action, like a rally between players on a tennis court where you hit a smash and you react as your partner struggles but still returns it. Only the ball is between orgasm fuck buddies and not competitors.

 

[Sally Ann]

No. It got my blood flowing too.

It certainly got something flowing, that much is true!!

 

[941413]

1 Yes. i love the idea that I'm stretching and challenging her.

2. I have pushed ahead, by i generally ask (more in the "you like that? you want more? kinda category)

3. I have certainly delayed orgasm to continue challenging and pushing.

 

[326807]

(1) Does it increase your pleasure and satisfaction to know that your size is a real challenge to your lady friend? Yes ,it makes foreplay more fun
(2) When it was evident that your lady friend was being "overmatched" by your penis did you press ahead thinking that "she wants it and she's going to get it" or "she's been teasing me all night and now she's going to get it" or "I'm going to make sure that she has trouble walking tomorrow morning" or "she knew I was big and now she's going to take it" or anything like that?basically start slow,tease then go balls deep hold it there kiss,caress let her get used to being impaled then gently thrust repeat till she cums
(3) Have you ever delayed your orgasm so that you could extend her "challenge" and maybe "teach her a lesson"?yes when I was younger if I got past a certain point I could hold off and use toys fingers ect. on her

 

[Guy-jin]

Yes, no, and no.

In other words, I do get turned on when she's clearly into the fact that I'm bigger than she's used to, including if she's finding it "challenging" but still wanting to do it.

I would never "charge ahead" if I wasn't sure she actually wanted it, and I have no interest in SM stuff like "teaching her a lesson". It's not a turn on at all.

I'd delay my orgasm only because I want to keep going and give her more orgasms, not to somehow "challenge" her.

 

[robert617]

When I was younger, it was true in all three cases, but now, post fifty, not so much. There are a lot fewer women interested in "challenges". It is great to find one who is interested, though they seem to take it on more as a project than a challenge. I haven't had a first timer in a while so while it may still be a challenge, everyone knows what they are in for and are quite frank about it.

 

[Brisler]

I have a better question. Why are so many guys answering her question? She said guys over 8 inches and 99 percent of the people on this site aren't 8 plus inches.

I have a better question. Why are you such a bitter man?

 

[BillM]

I have a better question. Why are so many guys answering her question? She said guys over 8 inches and 99 percent of the people on this site aren't 8 plus inches.

Lionel is right and is 8inches VERY WELL ENDOWED or is it now bigger!!

 

[EmperorJimbo]

No no no no.
Major issue not wanting to hurt my wife. If the challenge of accommodating my girth is too much or she's just not able, it not into it right now, my errection goes away and even if I wanted to I could not.

 

[JohnBear]

1. No
2. No
3. No

I don't like hurting people. Period. Was a huge issue with last girlfriend, no pun intended.

I'm in exactly the same boat as you, it's given me some real issues in the past. I much prefer it when the woman i'm with is enjoying it not struggling!

 

[BillM]

NO< NO< NO

 

[Notaes]

I certainly would have to be honest and say I got a thrill out of you adjusting to my size but I could only have sex with you if you really really wanted it. I am the type of man that is sensitive about hurting women. I cannot hurt women even if it means being able to fuck women. I ask my wife constantly if I am hurting her because i know that a position or two we use lets me penetrate very deep and thrusting deep ten to hurt my wife. I tell her ALL the time that i cannot hurt her and beg her to please tell me if i am hurting her. I just cannot fuck women and hurt them. 'call me a new breed of man or whatever I just cannot hurt my woman who i am trying to make love to them. Hurting my women is not love. i hope you understand what i am trying to say. i love my wife and i just cannot hurt woman if my cock is hurting them. I love fucking pussy as much as the next guy but i cannot hurt a woman. I f she wats my cock i would try but i could not hurt her. I would quit first.

 

[Coronahead]

1) Yes
2) No
3) No

It's a turn on when you're clearly stretching out a lover and filling her up and can hear her moaning pleasure. For me it's a turn on and gives a dominant feeling. It makes you feel like a stud and that you are filling her up the way other guys will be unable to.

Other than that there is not a feeling of dislike at all, far from it, it's just kind of cute and hot at the same time when women are finding your endowment a challenge.

Are you able to fit most of your cock inside mañy woman? Are you able to get past their cervix to their posterior fornix? I hear that can give a woman a earth shattering orgasm, if you do it correctly.

 

[Notaes]

Are you able to fit most of your cock inside mañy woman? Are you able to get past their cervix to their posterior fornix? I hear that can give a woman a earth shattering orgasm, if you do it correctly.

I can. My wife tells me when I hit her cervix. She tells me sonetimes it fills like it coming up into her throat.(joke of course) I love filling her pussy with my cock and fucking her until she cum and convulses in pleasure. I love eating her pussy and giving her that kind of pleasure and then she will beg me to mount her and fuck the hell out of her. I try to please.

 

[bigbucky]

I get some pleasure and a feeling of dominance but I'm careful to go slow and stop if it's painful. most of the time my wife gets on top and controls the rate of entry. she has told me "honey, you are large and taking you all at once, is difficult to do, and if we go too fast then it's gets uncomfortable. and this all about being comfortable. I love you and love your big dick stuffed in me."
and then are other times when she pulls me down on top of her and says, "fuck me, fuck me, fuck me hard. rape me!" usually, when that happens, she is very horny. is quite wet, and we've been having sex several times a day for a few days.

 

[Notaes]

I get some pleasure and a feeling of dominance but I'm careful to go slow and stop if it's painful. most of the time my wife gets on top and controls the rate of entry. she has told me "honey, you are large and taking you all at once, is difficult to do, and if we go too fast then it's gets uncomfortable. and this all about being comfortable. I love you and love your big dick stuffed in me."
and then are other times when she pulls me down on top of her and says, "fuck me, fuck me, fuck me hard. rape me!" usually, when that happens, she is very horny. is quite wet, and we've been having sex several times a day for a few days.

boy are you a lucky guy. I would love to try to have sex several times a day. I can jack off several times a day but a good raw fuck for us is so intense I never felt anything like it. the older we get the better it is. the orgasms are so intense it will almost make you unconscious. they are fucking great. I would love to try to have sex several times a day but after one session my wife has all she can take. I can understand thought as we have fucked for two hours before I came so help me God that is the truth. We can hardly walk when its over.