Maybe you gals can help me with this one.
I'm married and last week, I saw a special friend of mine, someone I've known for 20 years but we have lived in different states. A platonic friend, but one that I am very attracted to. Here's what happened.
I'm at the beach where my hotel is and she visits me after work. Our plan was to have dinner out that evening. I'm in my bathing suit and she's wearing shorts. I suggested she wear or bring her bathing suit, but she confides in me that she just started her period. My birthday is the following day and her birthday is the day after that, we have not seen each other for almost 2 years, and she has brought a bottle of wine that needs to go into my refridge before we head out.
Well the excitement of just the 2 of us in my hotel room got the best of me and now I'm sporting a decent boner. 80% erection, I'm guessing. I wanted to be a gentelman but I must admit I was enjoying the fact that she had this power over me and that she may enjoy seeing that she had this effect on me. After a couple of minutes of nervously going back and forth in the room to put away the bottle, get out some fruit for her, as she is setting things down, going out to the balcony to inspect the view, I had time to think, "Is this erection going to be so noticable that it would make her feel uncomfortable?" I was okay with it, but maybe she wasn't.
Modesty won out, and I wrapped a towel around my waist, we sat at the table on the balcony and caught up on our lives. Of course the bone never went away (just much less noticable) until well after I showered, got dressed and finally arrived at the restaurant.
So my question is this. Have you gals ever had a similar situation with someone who was off-limits and had to say something?, or have you been more the "This is interesting, I'm going to enjoy the show. And WOW... I guess I still have what it takes!" type???
All in all, it was the best platonic date I've had in a long time and something I secretly hope to talk to her about someday, if and when, we are both single again!!!
I'm married and last week, I saw a special friend of mine, someone I've known for 20 years but we have lived in different states. A platonic friend, but one that I am very attracted to. Here's what happened.
I'm at the beach where my hotel is and she visits me after work. Our plan was to have dinner out that evening. I'm in my bathing suit and she's wearing shorts. I suggested she wear or bring her bathing suit, but she confides in me that she just started her period. My birthday is the following day and her birthday is the day after that, we have not seen each other for almost 2 years, and she has brought a bottle of wine that needs to go into my refridge before we head out.
Well the excitement of just the 2 of us in my hotel room got the best of me and now I'm sporting a decent boner. 80% erection, I'm guessing. I wanted to be a gentelman but I must admit I was enjoying the fact that she had this power over me and that she may enjoy seeing that she had this effect on me. After a couple of minutes of nervously going back and forth in the room to put away the bottle, get out some fruit for her, as she is setting things down, going out to the balcony to inspect the view, I had time to think, "Is this erection going to be so noticable that it would make her feel uncomfortable?" I was okay with it, but maybe she wasn't.
Modesty won out, and I wrapped a towel around my waist, we sat at the table on the balcony and caught up on our lives. Of course the bone never went away (just much less noticable) until well after I showered, got dressed and finally arrived at the restaurant.
So my question is this. Have you gals ever had a similar situation with someone who was off-limits and had to say something?, or have you been more the "This is interesting, I'm going to enjoy the show. And WOW... I guess I still have what it takes!" type???
All in all, it was the best platonic date I've had in a long time and something I secretly hope to talk to her about someday, if and when, we are both single again!!!
