A Question of Preference

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so i would just like to find out from people that say that they are 10%-40% gay- What exactly does that mean. are you willing to have full on sexual intercourse or do you just appreciate male beauty? In essence what makes you not completely straight or full-on bi-sexual?
 

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Hey boet, Mainly answering coz I'm in the same place as you - but you in Durbs I guess? Anyways, sure I appreciate male and female beauty even sexiness, but for the % I was thinking its more about how far you might go - like 25% might mean jerkoff buddy, 50% might mean BJ etc... dunno if this sounds right - as I say, main reason to reply is just to say howzit to another rainbow oke.
 

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Here's the answer to your question - at least in my case.

I'm 100% straight. I love women and love sex with them. When I'm not in a relationship, I'm out looking for one.

I don't think of myself as bi-sexual, because I don't get turned on at all by guys.

I listed myself as 10% gay because I've gotten off with guys before but, when I'm doing something with a guy, my focus is on me and busting a nut. It's like masturbation with a helping hand.
 

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I appeciate male beauty. When I look at guys it mostly because I'm jealous of their looks.
Okay, I can understand that; but being jealous of some guys 6-pack or biceps doesn't mean you want to suck his cock. It has nothing to do with your sexuality.

What I as a 100% straight female have often found confusing on this site is when a 100% straight man lists himself as anywhere from 1% to 10% gay simply because he doesn't want to appear homophobic. That's nice to know but I think that should be in your profile or blog.
 

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For me, on the other side of the coin, my 10% straight is for a few reasons. I had relationships with females all through highschool and was sexually active with most of them. The sex was good, it got the job done and I wasn't turned off by any of it. However, I was not nor am I attracted to females in that way. I don't desire them sexually. I can appreciate beauty in a female and there are women I find gorgeous but it pretty much stays at apprecition. Also, I was never emotionally attracted to them in that way. I loved the girls I dated and slept with but as friends. Does that mean I won't ever sleep with a female again? Who knows? It's not something I have the desire to pursue but if the situation is right, I'm not going to rule some activity out. Also, I have a huge attraction to straight or "mostly" straight guys and one of my fantasies is to be with a guy and a girl. In that case I'm sure I would completely enjoy all aspects of the experience. Hopefully, there would be at least some minor interaction between me and the guy, being he would know my preference. Even if there wasn't though, I am such a voyeur and the thrill of being able to share in the experience with him, would totally make me open to anything. That's my explaination.
 

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The amount of str8 guys that discreetly do not-so-str8 things on the side and never admit it is astounding = can’t really blame them for the most part when we live in such a homophobic society but what really gets me are the ones that can’t admit it to themselves even though they do it!
 

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I would have to say that the 30% figure is an acknowledgment of all the cocksucking and taking it up the ass stuff....

I have had sex with guys.... I practically grew up having sex with guys...

As an adult I much preferred women... but as a result of my earlier experiences I absolutely understand the pure pleasure that gay men get from what they are up to...

I still enjoy gay porn as much as I do straight porn. I still fantasize from time to time....

However... being a faithful man... the past 15 years have left me no real interest in seeking same sex liaisons.

Truth is... when it comes to sex... its ALL good for me...

I prefer women not because of the sex... I prefer women because I prefer women...
 

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The amount of str8 guys that discreetly do not-so-str8 things on the side and never admit it is astounding = can’t really blame them for the most part when we live in such a homophobic society but what really gets me are the ones that can’t admit it to themselves even though they do it!

I totally agree...I have a real problem with guys who screw dudes on the side but keep it a secret from the women they're supposedly committed to...

Growing up I had NO IDEA there were so many "straight" guys who had sex with other men...but one day I overheard my older sister's conversation with an openly gay friend of hers & he was telling her about all the straight guys in town that he had slept with...that was pretty shocking...

speaking personally, I added 1% because I can appreciate that a guy is good-looking...and oh yeah...I did once let a guy blow me...:biggrin1:
 

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I'm dying to pound your bottom while you go down on another woman. Will you let me know when that opportunity arises? :flirt:

Sweetie you'd be tied to the chair completely naked, hands firmly fastened behind your back sitting right at the edge of the bed. Close enough to see everything, smell everything, almost close enough to taste everything but just not close enough to touch
 

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Sweetie you'd be tied to the chair completely naked, hands firmly fastened behind your back sitting right at the edge of the bed. Close enough to see everything, smell everything, almost close enough to taste everything but just not close enough to touch

You're going to torture me?! Or are your plans to make me so crazy that I break the ropes and fuck the ever-loving shit out of you and the other woman?
 

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I have 1% because I have had a sexual relationship with one guy in my life. I am attracted mostly to women, but I am also attracted to a certain kind of guy. If I am going to do something with a man all the criteria have to be met. So the 1% covers that portion of my sexual spectrum. I don't openly look to meet guys, but there are some in the world that I am attracted to.