Hi there... In the spirit of helping convince someone who really needs convincing, I come bearing a query. I'm hoping this would be the right place to ask this question, as it's not so much dealing with a large penis in particular, but to the entire life-support system for said member. I'm curious about an odd subject - turn-off's. In this case, penis size is only tangentally relevant. For the sake of arguement, let's say there is a medium-large phallus in question, to the large side of thickness but average in length. Okay, that said, let's deal with the person attached to that penis. Of four traits, dealing with the guy as a whole, which of these would you consider the *biggest* turn-off: 1 - Size (the guy himself, not just parts). I'm talking in the neighborhood of very round face, very round belly, looks younger than chronological age primarily through plumpness, moves rather awkwardly at times, furniture and car suspensions groan upon his arrival. 2 - Smoking. Around a pack a day. The beginnings of a healthy (!?) smoker's cough. Clothing and skin seem saturated by the scent, save for just after a shower and fresh laundry. 3 - Couture...or lack of a sense thereof. The same things - jeans, t-shirts, nondescript sneakers, nondescript hoodie in cold weather, partial to dark or black most of the time, some items occasionally ripped/stained/scuffed from work, but out of habit he clings to these items, as he sees rare if any occasion to dress up. 4 - Introversion...to the point of perpetual social awkwardness. Long pauses while he thinks of things to say. Conversation is a draining chore. Reluctant to express a point of view, though when he does it can be fairly animated and, if he's geeky enough on the subject, rather like a pinball game, with subjects bouncing about, lack of complete thoughts, almost a babble. Of these, ladies (and I'll even crack the door open to male-preferring males, should there be an opinion on these matters,) which of the above four is the WORST trait, the wince-inducer, the deal-breaker, the leg-closer, the phone-number-loser, the ...well, you get the idea. I'll also accept orders of horrendousness from worst to not-as-bad-but-still-icky. Someone is looking for a starting point, and even after much cajoling and appeal, apparently only has willpower to focus on a single issue at a time *sigh.* Where should the focus lie? Where should he start? Thank you. ...And if this is the wrong forum after all, whoever has the power to do so has my full permission to move it to which ever category would suit it better. Thanks again.