I'm highly interested in one of the most awesome women I've ever met. She is highly intelligent, a big nerd for anime and other more interesting things like philosophy and physics, beautiful and sexy as hell and just generally rather interesting. Now, we just hung out today for the first time in like years but she told me so many sad stories about her life since I hung out with her. Her ex-husband was an alcoholic, he ignored her when it came to any important decision, he didn't really seem to actually care about her at all, he raped her multiple times while she was sick (ovary cysts and other issues), and just generally was a horrible person to her when in reality she is the sweetest and most sincere person I've met in a long time. She of all people in this world deserves to be treated with respect and dignity. She tells me that she hates to be touched let alone anything sexual now because of her past experiences. She has major trust issues and she has had to work through her issues alone because she's very introverted and doesn't have many friends. Plus, she had to move away with her husband not too long after they got married. So, she was going through hell in some strange state with no one to talk to or give her any type of emotional support. Any time I hear anything like this it makes me die a little inside. Sadly, it happens too often.