A shitty shitty day part two...

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TK... I am so sorry to hear that. Do you have friends or family near you who you can call over and talk with about this? Maybe someone with whom you can share memories of your neighbour? Best not to be alone at times like this.

Rob

As for this crap below...

ya neighbor? well here is a dose of reality....get over it already..we all have to die...death is a part of life. nothing you can do at this point ..he is dead..gone.....conscious of nothing.. ready for the embalming fluid.....you are still here and have to go on with ya life....
do something constructive to help you keep ya mind occupied...hopefully he lived a clean and decent life and accepted jesus as his savior before dying...otherwise he will not make it on the day of Resurrection

I'm curious. Do people like you say this stuff just to be obnoxious, or are you just insensitive to the point of being socially retarded?

*r_j_r waits patiently for some LPSG christians to show up and say something about this. After all, if christianity wasn't about this sort of insensitive dogmatic bullshit, the real christians would say something*
 

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TK... I am so sorry to hear that. Do you have friends or family near you who you can call over and talk with about this? Maybe someone with whom you can share memories of your neighbour? Best not to be alone at times like this.

Rob
I've been visiting with his family, and his wife. Knowing that I am strength for her, helps me. I will never think less of him, for the way he left, he is still the amazing person to me, as he was before he moved onto a better place.
 
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ya neighbor? well here is a dose of reality....get over it already..we all have to die...death is a part of life. nothing you can do at this point ..he is dead..gone.....conscious of nothing.. ready for the embalming fluid.....you are still here and have to go on with ya life....
do something constructive to help you keep ya mind occupied...hopefully he lived a clean and decent life and accepted jesus as his savior before dying...otherwise he will not make it on the day of Resurrection

okay, let me get this straight. You are this Jesus Freak, yet you have these idiotic Christians preach about how evil it is to be gay? If you look to the left of your post, it clearly says you have gay tendencies. So either, A) You are a hypocrite, B) You are just stupid, or C) You want attention. My best bet is "C" and a little of "A". You also need to learn how to say things without coming off too harsh. People loose loved ones, and it is their right to grieve the lost. It is their right as human beings, citizens of their country, and as "god's" children. You really sicken me, I hope one day you have a true reality check, and realize just how wrong you truly are.

Think_Kink, I send you my condolences, and if you ever need a shoulder to cry on, or an ear to listen - let me know. I would be more than glad to be there for you. *hugs*
 

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ya neighbor? well here is a dose of reality....get over it already..we all have to die...death is a part of life. nothing you can do at this point ..he is dead..gone.....conscious of nothing.. ready for the embalming fluid.....you are still here and have to go on with ya life....
do something constructive to help you keep ya mind occupied...hopefully he lived a clean and decent life and accepted jesus as his savior before dying...otherwise he will not make it on the day of Resurrection
GET THIS, FUCKO; YOU ARE LETTING YOUR BIG MOUTH SUPERCEDE YOUR COMMON SENSE, IF ANY BY CALLOUSLY DISMISSING THE PASSING OF SOMEONE WHO MATTERED TO THINK KINK. AND JUST WHAT THE FUCKING HELL MADE YOU THINK THAT THE MAN WAS RELIGIOUS AT ALL??!

YOU CAN'T BE SYMPATHETIC FOR TK'S LOSS, THEN DON'T BOTHER REPLYING NEXT TIME.

NOW, TAKE YOUR SELF-RIGHTEOUS ASS & LEARN SOME POSTING MANNERS.

AND CASE YOU DON'T GET THE CONNOTATION ABOUT MINDING YOUR TONGUE, HERE'S AN EMOTICON THAT'LL WORK WONDERS;

:bryce:
 

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Kink:

I'm sorry to hear about your neighbor. Suicide sucks big time for everyone around it. My dad did it last year, February 9th, 2006, just in time for Valentines Day and my oldest sisters birthday.

I totally understand why my father did it, but that doesn't lessen the shock, dismay, hurt, anger and flood of other feelings that come over you when it happens so close to you. It's the sudden finality of it all with seemingly no warning.

It's taken me many months to be near getting over it, and there are moments when it just pops up and ruins my day. The recent one was when I realized my metabolism had changed and I was curious when that happened to my dad as we have exactly the same body genetics. (He weighed the same as when he graduated high school almost until he was 40!) But I couldn't ask him about it because he's gone now. Sucked. Stared crying on the "L" and there was nothing I could do about it.

Give it time, and don't try to understand it. Time heals most wounds, but it' a slow process to be certain.
 

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Kink, I've been trying to think of something comforting to say but it just comes across as empty cliched words as the land of tears is such a lonely place where comforting words often seem inadequate and meaningless, so I will give you a story.

My neighbor jumped off the bridge here and ended her life about 8 years ago - I think of her sometimes when I look at that bridge and I realized she was dead long before she ended her life and I think in her mind it must have been a chance to end pain and go someplace better. Sad part is she never realized she was such a great lady. She once told me she felt lonely at times even though she was married - I thought it was impossible because she was such an outgoing person but I understand now no one ever lies about being lonely. I listen now when I hear those words. Maybe you can now hear people crying in silence and do something.

Big Hug to you Kink.

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Tough situation Kink, I hope you are dealing with it okay.

Suicide is a tough call for me. While I like to come out as being against suicide, the truth is it's just not my place to judge. It wouldn't be a choice I could make, unless I was diagnosed with a terminal illness, but it's not my place to judge what someone else should do or what they should be able to endure.


I don't think that I could disagree more strongly. Terminal illness I am still torn on; anything else I am firmly in the camp of don't bloody well do it.

Suicide has, in one way or another affected me on the deepest levels. I do understand the reasons and I am not going to say that everybody can “just be strong,” but when you consider how it affects those left behind I can not condone it. It actually pisses me off that somebody would chose death over life and scar those left behind because they could not deal with issues.

I know that they do not see it as selfish and for whatever reason they see it as the only way out at the time. They usually have a mental issue even if it is “just” a deep depression, but years ago when I had seriously considered it as an option the thought of how I had been affected kept me here. I wish that more people would consider those who love them before taking action. And yes, I will judge those who I have lost to this form of death as selfish for my own selfish reasons: I have been deprived of my relationship with them.

Anyhow, TK, I sent a PM and hope that you are taking a bit of time for yourself and your reflections.
 

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The couple were like my extra grandparents. They spoiled us all the time. He owned a business where he owned the machines, and trucks used to haul wood from the bush. This was my cities main industry, pulp and paper... But our mills are closing down, and he lost the business. I used to water the plants for them, babysit their dog, help put up Christmas lights, help move things in and outside when he was out working in the bush.

I want to think that he may have been diagnosed with something terminal, because he was close to retiring age, and were loaded. Had two kids he was estranged from, but seemed healthy, and happy either way. He did however smoke for many many years, and thats why I want to believe it wasn't just stress. He always used to joke about eating my rabbit, "make rabbit stew" he used to joke.

What a wonderful response Dreamer- and a way to carry on someones memory....

I would be glad to listen as well...

He worked all week, and came home in his big ford truck, which was covered in mud. He had the most patience, understanding, and compassion I've ever seen in anyone. He would never say no, he would always attempt to make things right. A true gentle soul, who loved kids, and never said much... but laughed often.
 

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allowing me to control ya emotions ? lol a true sign of weakness...and some very strong comments from people that are truly insignificant to me lmaooo...but neverthelsss I thank you for sharing your feelings...now if I may ..i was enjoying a fresh bowl of rabbitt s:biggrin1: tew
 

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GET THIS, FUCKO; YOU ARE LETTING YOUR BIG MOUTH SUPERCEDE YOUR COMMON SENSE, IF ANY BY CALLOUSLY DISMISSING THE PASSING OF SOMEONE WHO MATTERED TO THINK KINK. AND JUST WHAT THE FUCKING HELL MADE YOU THINK THAT THE MAN WAS RELIGIOUS AT ALL??!

YOU CAN'T BE SYMPATHETIC FOR TK'S LOSS, THEN DON'T BOTHER REPLYING NEXT TIME.

NOW, TAKE YOUR SELF-RIGHTEOUS ASS & LEARN SOME POSTING MANNERS.

AND CASE YOU DON'T GET THE CONNOTATION ABOUT MINDING YOUR TONGUE, HERE'S AN EMOTICON THAT'LL WORK WONDERS;

:bryce:

wow lmao i guess you are probably thinking to yourself yeaaaaaahhhhhh i really told him off --lmaoooo have a nice day!!!!
 

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wow lmao i guess you are probably thinking to yourself yeaaaaaahhhhhh i really told him off --lmaoooo have a nice day!!!!
Only a fucktard like you'd have no common sense to quit while you're ahead.
Lay off everyone; you said what you wanted to, people didn't like it 'cause you're too much of shithead who's pushing his religious views on someone who didn't need/want them.
Goodbye, so long, & don't go with the feeling you'll be missed.
 

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Only a fucktard like you'd have no common sense to quit while you're ahead.
Lay off everyone; you said what you wanted to, people didn't like it 'cause you're too much of shithead who's pushing his religious views on someone who didn't need/want them.
Goodbye, so long, & don't go with the feeling you'll be missed.

missed? i have no plans to leave ....i must help u understand that u are not significant to me ....your commenst are just as insignificant ...but I do thank you for sharing...anything else? lmaoooo ....insignificant people do not get me wound up or excited....the way i seem to have gotten you and ya cohorts lmaooooo I love to get the adrenaline flowing in others and just sit back and laugh......i am in control....and you are a perfect example..I make others respond to me .... I am pushing the buttons.........
 

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He worked all week, and came home in his big ford truck, which was covered in mud. He had the most patience, understanding, and compassion I've ever seen in anyone. He would never say no, he would always attempt to make things right. A true gentle soul, who loved kids, and never said much... but laughed often.


all good things must come to an end...but life will go on........do yaself a favor and get over him.........oh he was estranged from his bio children? so..the plot thickens..........umm interesting...care to explain why????
 

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I think thats none of your fucking business, and nothing more than a cheap attempt to dig more dirt to spread your heartless, inconsiderate, inappropriate bullshit.

Are you one of those guys who gets off on hurting people? Did your mummy have to sell your dog because you kept kicking it for a laugh?

Now.. I've been away for a few days but tried to post this before I left so please accept my appologies TK for being so late but IE was being a prick again...

TK.. I'm sorry for your loss and the loss of all others who felt close to him. This is not something you'll simply get over, not if you have a heart at least. My best friend took his life several years ago, and though I deal with it fine today, on those special days, I still cry for him and his family.

Arliss.. With regards to your heaven, hell, God bollocks

One day you will wake to realise that you are a worthless, heartless, self-serving cunt. You'll bring nothing but hatered into the heart of all who have the misfortune of getting to know you. At this point in time, one can only hope that you choose to disgard your belief in God, because if he exsists you will have no other option but to face up to the fact that no God worthy of the title would want your sorry ass joining them in the after life.

Thinking like a cunt is one thing, posting like one is completely different.


i was deeply moved by your comments ...thank you so much for sharing....i feel such a connection....lmaooooooo
 

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ready for the embalming fluid.....you are still here and have to go on with ya life....
do something constructive to help you keep ya mind occupied...hopefully he lived a clean and decent life and accepted jesus as his savior before dying...otherwise he will not make it on the day of Resurrection
Speaking of embalming fluid Arliss, why not get some of your own?

allowing me to control ya emotions ? lol a true sign of weakness...and some very strong comments from people that are truly insignificant to me lmaooo...but neverthelsss I thank you for sharing your feelings...now if I may ..i was enjoying a fresh bowl of rabbitt s:biggrin1: tew
Odd how you think you are controlling other people's emotions since you have responded to them--seems perhaps that they are controlling yours--or maybe people just want to post shitbrain--darn, I've just insulted shit.

missed? i have no plans to leave ....i must help u understand that u are not significant to me ....your commenst are just as insignificant ...but I do thank you for sharing...anything else? lmaoooo ....insignificant people do not get me wound up or excited....the way i seem to have gotten you and ya cohorts lmaooooo I love to get the adrenaline flowing in others and just sit back and laugh......i am in control....and you are a perfect example..I make others respond to me .... I am pushing the buttons.........
Insignificant you say? Like the nothingness of your entire existance so far? Only an insignificant twerp would believe that they made anything happen. Darn, I've just insulted insignificant twerps.

all good things must come to an end...but life will go on........do yaself a favor and get over him
Perhaps this will also apply to scummmy scuzzy things and we can get over your ending as well.:smile: Oh darn! I just insulted scummy and scuzzy things by putting you in their realm. But the main thing being your ending coming very soon so we can all enjoy getting over something very quickly.
i was deeply moved by your comments ...thank you so much for sharing....i feel such a connection....lmaooooooo
Man, I was really moved by your comments arliss. I had been suffering an intestinal blockage for a few days and you helped clear it right out--such insane levels of stupidity as you have exhibited have been medically proven to do that.

Now here's the deal Pissface--erm, I mean Arliss--you are far far below the lowest of the low (even Satan himself doesn't want your kind around). You allege a bunch of Christian blah-blahs and then while spouting that material you come in without any compassion for a person and their very real loss. One of the basic tenets of Christianity and that Jesus fellow you mentioned is Compassion. You are a never-was and a never-will-be, essentially puke. Oh fuck, now I've insulted good old fashioned vomit.


Anywho~~my bowels and intestines thank you for clearing them out. As I flushed I pretended it was you--but then I realized that would be unfair to sewer pipes and septic tanks everywhere.
 

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Arliss, I have two words for you... Urgent Therapy. You are clearly struggling within yourself.

Your lack of sensitivity and emotion clearly shows me that you have suffered huge emotional pain. Your acting out and claiming to be the one in control tells me that you in fact are looking for control in your life, and definitely a great deal of attention too. Were you neglected as a child? Or abused? Were you love starved?

You see, we think that the masks we wear to try to cover up our brokenness, actually reveals them in all entirety.

Your maliciousness and condescension reveals a lot of hurt, anger and self esteem issues. I pity you and your miserable existence... Because you are clearly miserable and just existing.

Instead of focusing so much energy on destroying others, why not focus on making yourself better? Get help man, you need it. You may have the balls to undignified, the big question is if you are in so much control, why don't you have the balls to face your fears instead of making them everybody elses problem?