B_henry miller
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Most lines used in porn are stupid because most porn "actors" are terrible "actors." Even when they aren't saying degrading things, it still comes across as stupid and phoney most of the time. But those words -- "slut" and "whore" -- must turn some people on or else they wouldn't be there. They also turn some people off, which is why they don't watch porn with those kinds of words. There IS straight porn made for women; it tends to be less graphic.
I don't think porn overall is a bad thing because everyone is a consenting adult. But overall porn itself IS degrading. I don't think there's any porn out there of people having sex with others that they really love. Everyone's just doing it for money, and people are just selling it for money. Obviously.
But if you're going to get analytical, then at some level this addresses a male need to degrade women. And, yes, there are men -- a lot of them I suppose -- who get off on that. There are women who get off on it too. I've seen lesbian porn where one woman treats another woman the same. I've known real life lesbians who like dominating and degrading other women. And I've seen it in gay relations between men. It happens in gay porn too. You probably just don't notice because you focus on the treatment of women and terms used for women -- and there are no women in gay male porn.
I don't think porn overall is a bad thing because everyone is a consenting adult. But overall porn itself IS degrading. I don't think there's any porn out there of people having sex with others that they really love. Everyone's just doing it for money, and people are just selling it for money. Obviously.
But if you're going to get analytical, then at some level this addresses a male need to degrade women. And, yes, there are men -- a lot of them I suppose -- who get off on that. There are women who get off on it too. I've seen lesbian porn where one woman treats another woman the same. I've known real life lesbians who like dominating and degrading other women. And I've seen it in gay relations between men. It happens in gay porn too. You probably just don't notice because you focus on the treatment of women and terms used for women -- and there are no women in gay male porn.