Sometimes the language used by the men in straight porn really bothers me. So many times I have been watching one and I thought, "Oh, why did you have to say that? Was that really necessary? I was enjoying this one until then and now yuck!" As a result, I usually turn off the sound so I won't get turned off by what the guy says to the woman he's fucking. There have been some that have been permanently ruined for me. Turning off the sound won't make me forget that I really think that guy is a real dick, so I don't care about his dick any more.
It's just one of the reasons why I prefer watching gay porn. Men don't often do that to each other in gay porn and so it seems so much more sex positive to me and much more enjoyable.
I was just now thinking about this and a thought occurred to me, so I present my question to you, straight men of LPSG...
Is this a case of what turns me off turns straight men on? Have you ever watched porn and thought, "You know, this would be so much sexier if he called her a slut more often." Does that happen? Do you feel that the porn would be less sexy if the guy didn't call her a slut or a whore? How much of language like that has to do with how much you enjoy porn?
The total vapidity and sterility of most of the speaking in porn is a turn off and an annoyance. As others have said, I just mute it if it gets too bad. Just one of the many annoyances of the porn industry. I would enjoy it plenty more if it wasn't degrading both to women and to good sex and wasn't so racialized, but I don't have much hope. I just poke around to pick and choose performers that suit me.