A somewhat serious question for the Ladies

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  1. Imported

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    girthbrooks: Ladies, when feeling frisky, after 30 minutes or so of fore-foreplay and foreplay, which best decribes what you are usually looking forward to before your partner cums...

    E... 13 minutes or so of medium thrusting or...

    X... 3 minutes or so of hard thrusting or...

    S... 23 minutes or so of light and gentle thrusting...



    or S followed by E followed by X
     
  2. BruceSter

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    Hi Girthbrooks (nice pun, btw),

    What is the point in this? If you do sex, well, that's nothing unusual regarding the style. But one thing I absolutely hate - sex with a stopwatch with countdown function in my hand. Hope you get it.

    Bruce
     
  3. Aruba 1st

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    Please forgive another male intrusion.
    GirthBrooks,
    re-read and properly complete the question before resubmitting.
    Something’s missing.
     
  4. amethyst

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    Totally depends on my mood. Sometimes I am in the mood for a quick fuck, which would be "X". Sometimes I want to make love, slow and sensual, and connected, which would be "S". And sometimes I am in the mood for all three and the order could vary, depending on the moment.

    You probably won't find a woman who just likes it one way, I am guessing.

    Amethyst
     
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    I agree with you amethyst... it all depends on my mood...
     
  6. Karen M

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    Me too! But is there a man anywhere that really understands this? lol :unsure:

    ;) Karen
     
  7. madame_zora

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    No! They're all looking for the perfect formula of perfect penis size, thrusting style and oral technique. Try TALKING to us about this stuff in bed, dammit! Ask your PARTNER what SHE likes instead of a group of strangers, you will get much further.
     
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    Well in that case, what do you prefer Jana? I was planning on going with a little E, a brief X, then some S, and then a finale X. Or did you have something else in mind :D
     
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    I agree! Each woman likes it differently and it all depends on our mood. Talking to her is the easiest way to find out!!
     
  10. Imported

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    girthbrooks: Just having a bit of fun with numbers and letters, actually. The fact that the same woman likes different things at different times is a blessing. Not to mention the different "tastes" (fun intended) from woman to woman for those single guys out there.
     
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    GirthBrooks wrote:
    "Which best decribes what you are usually looking forward to before your partner cums..."
    Aruba 1st wrote:
    "Something's missing."

    My suggestion was related to what I saw as the male slant of the question. I need not have been concerned as from the replies - the LPSGLadies were aware of it and either ignored it or read between the lines and dismissed the way guys think.

    When I was first getting into women I remember hearing,
    "Harder, HARDER !" and replied,
    "It doesn't get any harder."

    Some of us take a while.....
    I'm gettin' better.
    :)
     
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    *falls off chair in orgasmic fit* Honey, whatever you want! Oh, how about 20 minutes of X and then round 2? I'm sure I can find *some* way to get you ready again!
     
  13. Dr. Dilznick

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    Just thrusting? Who says the guy has to do ALL the work? ;)
     
  14. deewil

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    E would be my preference on most occasions. X? Generally not, especially if the guy has a large penis. However, if I'm on top, than X or a variety of E and S can be okay or good.
     
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    Dr. Dilznick, if you're having to do all the work, she's not having any fun! :(

    -_- Karen
     
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    Yeah, for goodness sakes, talk. Let each other know what you're in the mood for. Heck, there's even a lot of nonverbal stuff you can do to get the point across if you're not comfortable verbalizing.
     
  17. Dr. Dilznick

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    She works 2 jobs now, and she's usually too tired for some woman on top action. I know it's still fun for her, but I always look forward to the weekends. Her on top....on a chair....in front of the bedroom mirror. Now that's what I'm talking about. ;)
     
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    Like some of the others, it completely depends on the mood...

    And, as Jana so eloquently stated, ASK US!!!! Trust me, if we are not already telling you, we will when you ask us. ;)

    Oh, and Jana... wait!!!! I have dibs on Brian... we might have to share that one babe....
     
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    I did ignore it, but I also appreciated you pointing that out. I was trying, without being critical and direct, to give him information that would encourage him to read his partner.

    That is what makes a man a good partner. Women, too. The best lovers I have ever had had nothing to do with 'performance', body type, or penis size, they were the ones who gained pleasure by figuring out how to pleasure me.


    Amethyst
     
  20. madame_zora

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    Honey, I'd enjoy a game of "Brian toss" with you! Good to see you, how are things? PM me if you get time.
     
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