About a year or so ago I was seeing a therapist and I told him about how i was attracted to penises and not necessarily men (I consider myself straight and he knew I thought of myself as straight) and he came up with an interesting theory as to why this could be. He said that since I lacked a strong deep relationship or friendship with males, and I was not able to develop such relationships, that my desire for that deep friendship had manifested into trying to develop a sexual relationship with other men, and for me that centers around a man's penis. That isn't what he said verbatim so try not to analyze each word. Has anyone else ever heard of anything like this? Thoughts?