Some of these posts are too age specific. Altho I agree to an extent to allow my daughter to help me shop, she's too young for it. She understands enough to get something, but the last thing I want is for her to get into the habit of grabbing shit off the shelves. As to the person that made a comment about leaving the kids at home. Good in theory, but completely flawed... take a look at how it worked for you... then turn is bass akwards and fuck it sideways. That's how it goes for alot of people. Not everyone is in the perfect situation to do their shopping in the morning, or to just leave and go home, or to just get a babysitter. What about Single moms that work third shift at a diner and can't afford a babysitter? I didn't say I ever allow my kid to act up, but also I know what my options are. I personally can't afford a babysitter right now, and I work 60 hours a week, in the car off to work by 5am. So going to the store in the morning wouldn't do anything for me. Kids cry, they get upset, it doesn't mean that you need to beat the shit out of them so that they'll "learn". Contrary to what some people think, some kids actually cry because there's a problem sometimes. Ionno about you, but to me having other people deal with my crying kid cause she's tired is better than me going home without any food because I don't have the options to go in the morning, or the means to hire a babysitter is just the way it'll have to be. There's a HUGE difference between what some people are talking about and what others are talking about. Some are talking about disciplining a child in general when acting out in public, others are talking about if strangers have the right to put their 2 cents in while your child is upset and you're trying to get some shopping done. Two completely different things. If my child throws a bit because she wanted Chocolate instead of Vanilla ice cream while at Sea World, yeah I'm gonna bust her ass, dependant upon many variables, and go home. If she's crying (not to be confused with throwing a fit and showing her ass) because she's legitimately upset, then guess what, the others in the super market will have to deal with it. I'm broke as shit and have a hungry child on my hip.
P.S. I heart you dolfette, you're the poo ^^