A male friend who has been reading dating and realtionship books asked me the following question: When you first meet a guy would you rather he just A) told you all the good things he liked about you, date you for several months, then tell you the things he didn't like and break up OR B) have him say up front what he likes and doesn't like, but say he still wants to date you? At first I refused to answer because I thought it was an asinine question; but he kept asking so my response was: "I didn't answer because it's a trick question. He would have to date me for a few months to find out what he didn't like about me." IMO, if he noticed things about me right off that he didn't like then he should never have asked me out. In addition any man that approaches me with what he likes and dislikes about me isn't going to get a chance to date me and dump me months down the line. Why would I waste my time on somebody like that? :12: Well folks how would you answer the above question?