A weird way to get a guys attention? (Gay topic, Semi-Long Read)

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by B_Lewis1, Jan 22, 2009.

  1. B_Lewis1

    B_Lewis1 New Member

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    Okay I want opinions on this.

    I have a theory that if a guy pays more than enough attention to you grabbing your junk that its a possibility he's bi or gay. I dont like placing the labels on it though.

    I came up with this theory based on my obvservations about "straight male bonding" I know there are exceptions to every rule. I noticed that when some guys are hanging out & talking there is usually one who grabs his junk (crotch grab) sometimes its only once and alot of times there is one guy who does it alot. And, through all the grabbing the guys never look down or seem like they notice it SO I came up with the conclusion that the ones who do notice or keep looking must be interested lol

    So I do this all the time to "test guys out" if you will. I grab my junk about 3 times to see if they notice and if they do I feel that I can approach them.

    so let me give you an example:

    Last week I noticed this security Guard I liked. He works in a bus transit center and I ususaly see him but, then I usually have to leave cause Im catching a bus lol. The next time I seen him I sat next to him and made small talk then I started grabbing my junk (as if I was adjusting) then I got hard. I am not very big down there but it is a noticable boner. I pretended it wasnt nothing and was bobbing my head and playing with my ipod while doing this. In my peripheral vision I seen his eyes gaze down at my crotch everytime I grabbed it. And when I left I said goodbye & he smiled & said the same. The next time I see him he INITIATED conversation with me.

    I know that doesnt sound like much but the more we see each other the more rapport (sp?) we will have

    What do you guys think? Do you think the grabbing thing worked and made him want to talk to me more? or no?
     
  2. jeff black

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    It sounds like you were playing with your cock, making yourself hard. He, as a gay man, was intrigued by your bulge, noticed you were doing it intentionally, and started talking to you.

    All the grabbing did was make him realize you were interested and wanted to fuck.
     
  3. B_Lewis1

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    hahaha wow you cut right to the chase man

    so you think hes gay?
     
  4. Ickday

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    SAW! SAW! @#$%*

    :biggrin1:

    It is interesting though, I've considered doing similar things :p
     
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    I think he had to look after u kept grabbing your junk and then got hard....
     
  6. B_Lewis1

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    not quite true like i said i notice alot of guys who do not notice at all

    and it was much more subtle than it sounds lol
    its not like i was exposing it to the whole bus station
     
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