Okay I want opinions on this. I have a theory that if a guy pays more than enough attention to you grabbing your junk that its a possibility he's bi or gay. I dont like placing the labels on it though. I came up with this theory based on my obvservations about "straight male bonding" I know there are exceptions to every rule. I noticed that when some guys are hanging out & talking there is usually one who grabs his junk (crotch grab) sometimes its only once and alot of times there is one guy who does it alot. And, through all the grabbing the guys never look down or seem like they notice it SO I came up with the conclusion that the ones who do notice or keep looking must be interested lol So I do this all the time to "test guys out" if you will. I grab my junk about 3 times to see if they notice and if they do I feel that I can approach them. so let me give you an example: Last week I noticed this security Guard I liked. He works in a bus transit center and I ususaly see him but, then I usually have to leave cause Im catching a bus lol. The next time I seen him I sat next to him and made small talk then I started grabbing my junk (as if I was adjusting) then I got hard. I am not very big down there but it is a noticable boner. I pretended it wasnt nothing and was bobbing my head and playing with my ipod while doing this. In my peripheral vision I seen his eyes gaze down at my crotch everytime I grabbed it. And when I left I said goodbye & he smiled & said the same. The next time I see him he INITIATED conversation with me. I know that doesnt sound like much but the more we see each other the more rapport (sp?) we will have What do you guys think? Do you think the grabbing thing worked and made him want to talk to me more? or no?