redbear52, wouldn't that (taking off the panties), depends upon the circumstances: the woman, her attitude -- what she's looking for, age, where does she live, her circumstances at the moment: single, married, divorced, or separated.
I would've have said: "a large penis doesn't get all chicks to take off their panties." The operative words is -- all.
Finally, he's 20; he has a full life ahead of him: he'll grow and hopefully learn from his mistakes -- like all of us did who are over 40 -- lest we forget we were once younger.