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Hello fellow LPSG users,


Recently I came across a guy that I'll, for the sake of his own privacy, call Mike. I came across his profile (which had a picture of him wearing a pair of woman's Nike sneakers) and decided to give myself a "yeet" moment and send him a message. His profile bio, that I read only after I initially sent the message, said: "Who wants to give this straight twink a blowjob?", but then in my own language. Now I, as a almost completely gay man can in some way stand behind straight men wanting to try out new experiences. However, the guy made it clear to me that he, if I so wished to, wanted to also give me a blowjob and even allowed me to anally penetrate him if I so wished to. He also offered to anally penetrate me as well.

Him being, as I like to call it, bi-curious (or just straight but curious), I found this kinda odd and didn't totally feel comfortable considering he made it clear that he didn't want to give his Instagram, didn't want to show him my face until we actually would've been meeting and didn't want to show a picture of his body up until we would be to meet.

What do I need to do with this, because I'm not comfortable in the most literal sense having a fuck date with somebody who I've only seen the dick of and know his (probably an alias) first name.
 

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Hello fellow LPSG users,


Recently I came across a guy that I'll, for the sake of his own privacy, call Mike. I came across his profile (which had a picture of him wearing a pair of woman's Nike sneakers) and decided to give myself a "yeet" moment and send him a message. His profile bio, that I read only after I initially sent the message, said: "Who wants to give this straight twink a blowjob?", but then in my own language. Now I, as a almost completely gay man can in some way stand behind straight men wanting to try out new experiences. However, the guy made it clear to me that he, if I so wished to, wanted to also give me a blowjob and even allowed me to anally penetrate him if I so wished to. He also offered to anally penetrate me as well.

Him being, as I like to call it, bi-curious (or just straight but curious), I found this kinda odd and didn't totally feel comfortable considering he made it clear that he didn't want to give his Instagram, didn't want to show him my face until we actually would've been meeting and didn't want to show a picture of his body up until we would be to meet.

What do I need to do with this, because I'm not comfortable in the most literal sense having a fuck date with somebody who I've only seen the dick of and know his (probably an alias) first name.
You need to drop all illusions of some experimenting straight unicorn...he's either gay or mostly likely bisexual and wants to enjoy his fun time with men without having to be honest to himself, women, and/or friends/family because there are some societal privileges of purported heterosexuality he will not give up.
What you need to do is reconcile how ok you are with being a secret, shameful sex toy for a closeted liar.
 

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You need to drop all illusions of some experimenting straight unicorn...he's either gay or mostly likely bisexual and wants to enjoy his fun time with men without having to be honest to himself, women, and/or friends/family because there are some societal privileges of purported heterosexuality he will not give up.
What you need to do is reconcile how ok you are with being a secret, shameful sex toy for a closeted liar.

I can give you a point there. I honestly (quite highkey) agree with you, I feel kinda "used" in a way by him as an elaborate sex toy in a way. If all he sees in me is a guy with a good looking ass and a great moan to suck his dick and for him as a kneel-for-him typa guy that'll let him fuck me without like any actual built-up friendship or mutual respect, that's kinda lame.

Probably shouldn't even have spoken to him in the first place, kinda lame. The fact that he doesn't want to show his face, give me his Snapchat or Instagram, doesn't want to give me his full name (only a most likely fake first name), doesn't want to share his home address (which is understandable even though he does want to have a fuck date) I don't see what I would see in him if I don't get anything in return.
 
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I can give you a point there. I honestly (quite highkey) agree with you, I feel kinda "used" in a way by him as an elaborate sex toy in a way. If all he sees in me is a guy with a good looking ass and a great moan to suck his dick and for him as a kneel-for-him typa guy that'll let him fuck me without like any actual built-up friendship or mutual respect, that's kinda lame.

Probably shouldn't even have spoken to him in the first place, kinda lame. The fact that he doesn't want to show his face, give me his Snapchat or Instagram, doesn't want to give me his full name (only a most likely fake first name), doesn't want to share his home address (which is understandable even though he does want to have a fuck date) I don't see what I would see in him if I don't get anything in return.
sorry man. im like Mike, on the dl but i make that very explicit right up front. for me this is a fantasy and i want who im hooking up wit to be on the same page as me. it still makes me feel bad, it seems like im ashamed of them but im really just a coward.

kneel-for-him typa guy that'll let him fuck me without like any actual built-up friendship

lol you can give me his contact info
 

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sorry man. im like Mike, on the dl but i make that very explicit right up front. for me this is a fantasy and i want who im hooking up wit to be on the same page as me. it still makes me feel bad, it seems like im ashamed of them but im really just a coward.

I mean don't even bother. He's hairy, slightly chub (kinda like myself, even though I'm average) and has a fetish for female (or girls') sneakers. Ain't the best. He also hasn't shared his Insta, Snap or Kik with me due to his privacy obsessed habits.

lol you can give me his contact info
Don't bother, contact me instead. I'm 100% a better match.