About cuckolding

[SouthPole]

My own theory is there are various reasons men may be aroused by observing or thinking about "their" woman having sex with another man. For me it doesn't necessarily need to be "my" woman, although that fantasy is one of my several favorites; and, of course, the "other guy" always has a big cock!

And before I explain, for me, there is a huge difference between "wife sharing" or "hot wife" scenarios and the humiliation aspect that seems to be associated with the term cuckold. For ME, I don't want to be humiliated or ridiculed while enjoying sex. Not my thing. It may be part of someone else's kink, and that's cool; just not my thing.

The main turn-on for me is watching my usually reserved and "well-behaving" member of the community behaving in such a wanton & taboo way. I mean, if we all enjoy sex and "porn", what could be a bigger turn-on than watching your wife acting like a porn star? In that regard, the fantasy of watching my wife suck cock at a gloryhole is very arousing! No strings, no face; just a stranger's big dick being serviced by my loving wife!

I must also confess that, for me, there is a bit of latent bi-curiousness mixed in. To some degree I envy her having the opportunity to pleasure that big cock (and herself!) knowing that I not only approve but encourage her slutty behavior. The fact is I'd love to touch, stroke & suck that big cock & fondle those heavy, hanging balls too! Unlike her though, I think 'd like to swallow.

Occasionally when we're having sex, I will describe scenes where she is acting slutty or being fucked by someone else and she goes along and actually enjoys it. Sometimes I'll spank her while she sucks my cock, telling her she's a bad girl for sucking "that other guy's" cock. She gets very wet and it's usually not long before she is begging me to fuck her!

I just love the look on her face when I am fucking her and is lost in lustful bliss. Sometimes I think of that look on her face as someone else is fucking her, someone with really big dick and I usually come fast and hard at that point ....

So, that's my cuckold story. Not for everybody but since someone asked .....

 

[SouthPole]

PS: I should add a couple more things: I also draw a HUGE distinction between "playing" and cheating! Once any of this goes off the radar, private hook-ups, dating, "boyfriend on the side", wife coming home while he waits at home and telling hubby what she just did ..... Nope. Recipe for disaster.

Having said that, I have lots of different scenarios that I enjoy; nude beach, erotic massage, amateur stripper night, clothing-optional resort, just to name a few!

 

[amazzzed2]

[Man, you just described exactly how i feel. I am also very curious about these guys who have such big dicks!! I want to hold one. Lol
My wife and i have sexy talk about her taking a big one and she gets very wet. Who knows what can happen in the future!





QUOTE="amazzzed2, post: 6323058, member: 809492"]From what I have read, my story seems pretty typical. I have always been very interested in anything sexual. I remember hearing stories from older friends about how much girls/women like big cocks. I realized from school gym class, etc. that my penis is smaller than average, and that I had very little body hair compared to other guys. I felt insecure about this, and so I didn't have sex until I was married. My wife was attractive, somewhat flirty, and had a very high sex drive. I had always had a high sex drive, but hers was even more. Because I had no experience, , and because of my insecurity about being able to satisfy a woman with my dick, our sex life revolved around my giving her oral sex. I became good at it, and she wanted it a lot. After she had multiple orgasms that way, she would get on top of me, put my dick inside her, and make me cum very quickly.
Eventually, she had an affair with a well endowed, hairy man. I was hurt and angry, but over time, found that it turned me on that she had much better sex with another man. I thought that I was crazy to be turned on by this. About this time, I was reading the Penthouse Forum magazine, and saw letters from men telling similar stories. It was the first time I had ever heard the word cuckold, or heard anyone talk about this. Unfortunately, I never had the courage to tell my wife about these fantasies, and many years later, we divorced. The few women I have been with since, have all been with men with big cocks. Cuckolding is by far my biggest turn on to this day.

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Yes, we do seem very similar!
I really enjoy talking with other cuckolds. Please PM me if you want.

 

[amazzzed2]

I got interested in it after seeing mfm porn in my early twenties & feeling disgusted that I was so turned on by it. Then found out my gf's previous love was huge & had given her very intense cervical/deep spot orgasms & fullness she doesn't experience with my small dick. She says the orgasms given by a huge dick are hard, intense & lead to long lasting tingling that's incomparable to clitoral orgasms. She was initially shocked by my fantasy but now we have incredibly hot sex when she talks about how awesome the sensations were with her ex compared with hardly feeling me. She gets incredibly wet & comes hard & fast. Now that she's rediscovering her sexuality & getting loads of attention from young guys, she's suddenly getting very sexual. I live in hope that my fantasy will be realised but am also aware of the warning stories I've read that things can go badly.

Honesty and communication are very important in this.
I think cuckolding improves relationships, as we as their sex life.
Could she reconnect with her ex?

 

[Uncutpete]

I think cuckolding improves relationships, as we as their sex life.

I have the same experience with the couples that I "bull" for. The marriages tend to get much better, both sexually and emotionally.

 

[Trott.lint]

Honesty and communication are very important in this.
I think cuckolding improves relationships, as we as their sex life.
Could she reconnect with her ex?

No chance of that. He dumped her - twice. His size was a big factor in getting back with him. She's not sexual at all so the fact that she found the big cock experience so addictive makes me think most women lie when they tell men 'its what you do with it' (what women tell their female friends is probably closer to the truth). I'm much more experimental, fun, inventive, sex-obsessed and turned on by female pleasure than her ex was but yet she maintains (when I pushed, she didn't volunteer) that there is no substitute for real length and girth and the completely different sensations it brings as well as orgasm type and intensity. I believe her.

 

[amazzzed2]

Very interesting!
Yeah, so much for " size doesn't matter"! In my experience with women, it really does, especially with sexual women.
Even though he dumped her, I bet she misses his big cock.

 

[Trott.lint]

Very interesting!
Yeah, so much for " size doesn't matter"! In my experience with women, it really does, especially with sexual women.
Even though he dumped her, I bet she misses his big cock.

She won't admit that but when brought up in the heat of the moment, she gets very wet, has crazy orgasms and begs to be pounded (which I can't do). That tells the story as far as I'm concerned. I've been very careful of separating in my mind what's actually happening with what I'd like to happen and I can promise you that the above is true. I'm not going to assume all women are the same - maybe my gf has a deeper vagina that's more prone to deep spot orgasms etc, but I have a very sneaky suspicion that mamy women who've had regular sex with large and then say 'it doesn't matter' are saying it to (a) save men blushes and (b) not look like slurs to other women. There are many exceptions, such as a wonderful female poster on LPSG who has had teal medical difficulties with her large husband, but I don't think that's the rule, more the exception.

 

[Flexxx]

I have been interested in being a Bull in a cuckold relationship if both of them were totally committed to the encounter. I wouldn't want to put a wedge in their relationship but rather fulfill the wife's desires to be satisfied by a muscular Bull and the husband wanting to be made to feel inadequate, both in a physical and sexual manner. So far no luck in finding such a couple

 

[Heat]

I was the bull for a few years for a highly successful couple in NJ, outside NYC. Started out the hubby wanted his wife satisfied...then she decided what was good for her was good for him. It was so fucking hot banging the wife, then banging the hubby. She'd watch most of the time, but sometimes she'd go for coffee and tell me to use him properly, which I did. The opposite happened, too, and when he returned I'd make him clean up the cum. It took a while, but he eventually enjoyed being a bit humiliated about being a cuck -- needing his wife satisfied, wanting and needing cock and cum -- and she eventually enjoyed being told she was a whore and knew she could never satisfy her husband completely. Hot times.
I have several other situations as the bull, but nowadays I won't play unless there's an openness about some bi-activity. If they don't like it, I don't play. More often than not after lots of conversations and I hold my ground about complete openness, the couple eventually comes around to me and hubby having some bi fun...and we usually all come around to the fact that the hubby didn't mind (or wanted) some cock for himself all along. Once you get that out in the open, all kinds of hellish fun happens.

 

[Uncutpete]

there is no substitute for real length and girth and the completely different sensations it brings as well as orgasm type and intensity. I believe her.

I have to say from experience that I agree with her, too.

 

[amazzzed2]

I have to say from experience that I agree with her, too.

My wife said the same thing about her ex lover's huge cock too.
Way better than anything I could do for her.

 

[Black_Frost]

I've been a bull a couple of times. Never with the husband/boyfriend in the room, but always with him knowing it was happening. There's a certain frisson to the idea of breaking the social rules and being a 'rude boy,' but it isn't really something I seek out.

I've had one girlfriend (past tense,) sleep with one of my former friends behind my back. I wasn't happy about it, but it didn't really bother me beyond pissing me off that he took advantage of her being upset (and in tears) about a fight we'd had to get her into the sack with him. Frankly, he could've had a little more class, and shown a little more respect. I didn't find out about it until nearly a year after she ended the relationship. Turns out she couldn't handle the guilt. She actually got furious when I didn't flip-out and call her a slut, once she told me. I'm not the jealous type. Never have been. Woman wants to be with me, she'll be with me. She wants to be with someone else, I'll find someone else to be with. Why would I want someone who doesn't want to be with me in the first place? Which...well, I suppose I don't really fully understand cuckolding, but different strokes for different folks. And so long as everyone knows and approves, I can be a bull if I find the woman attractive.

As to the rather smug size comments, above, I'd suggest that the sample size may be a bit small. My personal experience matches the survey data somewhat more. My present girlfriend (as well as my ex-wife and various ex-girlfriends) like the fact that I can hit their cervical walls and the g-spots thereupon. Every one of them also said they liked the feeling of being full / stretched by my girth. I was the largest most of them have had (I didn't ask. They volunteered the information, to a one. I still find that strange.) My present girlfriend has had larger than mine. She adamantly did not like it. He simply climbed on and pounded away, leaving her badly sore for days, and not in a good way. When she complained, all he'd say was "You'll get used to it." Which, if anyone thinks that's manly and cool, consider that it's the reason she's not with him, but with me, today. He keeps trying to get back with her, saying she's the best fuck he's ever had (Note: Equestriennes tend to have remarkable core strength, and the way they can grip with their internal muscles is...indescribable.) She won't give him the time of day.

So, yeah, size matters to women. But it's definitely not the most important thing to most women, and there's a major difference between someone who's big, and someone who knows how to use it. I tended bar for years, and heard many conversations about just that. The general consensus was that given two man, one with a large and one with a small penis -- all other things being equal -- they'd take the guy who knew how to use what they had the best. Else, some prefer bigger, some smaller. Women aren't one-size-fits-all. It's kind of like men with tits. Some like em larger, some not so large, y'know?

Apologies for wandering off-topic. But, yeah, I've been a bull, and the couple of times I've done it I've been bigger than the boyfriend / husband. Honestly, there's a bit of a 'rude boy' rush, but at the end of the day it's sex. It's pleasurable while one's doing it, and afterward, well, it's fine so long as it doesn't turn into a drama-fest. (One episode did (the boyfriend.) One didn't (the husband.)) All in all, as I get more...mature, I prefer less drama in my life.

[And then there was the woman who wanted me to do her on my living-room sofa, while my (now ex) wife was sleeping in the next room. Didn't happen. If I hadn't had more respect for my ex than to do that to her, I wouldn't've married her in the first place. Good grief!]

 

[Uncutpete]

As to the rather smug size comments, above

I wouldn't read any of the above comments as smug, simply realistic. Can we finally dispense with the "size vs know-what-to-do-with-it" binary? It is not either or. Of course very few women love fucking with someone who doesn't love women's pleasure or want to do their most to please women. The statement should be, given two men who are good looking, love women and are sexually skilled, but only one has a large penis, most women will enjoy sex with the one with the large cock more. We are not saying women won't choose their small-dicked husband to live life with, or that they won't love him more. As complex as sex is, love is much more complex than sex.
A good "bull" gets more joy from the wife/gf's pleasure than from his own. That is a given. A wham-bam guy doesn't get regulars.

 

[Notaes]

My own theory is there are various reasons men may be aroused by observing or thinking about "their" woman having sex with another man. For me it doesn't necessarily need to be "my" woman, although that fantasy is one of my several favorites; and, of course, the "other guy" always has a big cock!

And before I explain, for me, there is a huge difference between "wife sharing" or "hot wife" scenarios and the humiliation aspect that seems to be associated with the term cuckold. For ME, I don't want to be humiliated or ridiculed while enjoying sex. Not my thing. It may be part of someone else's kink, and that's cool; just not my thing.

The main turn-on for me is watching my usually reserved and "well-behaving" member of the community behaving in such a wanton & taboo way. I mean, if we all enjoy sex and "porn", what could be a bigger turn-on than watching your wife acting like a porn star? In that regard, the fantasy of watching my wife suck cock at a gloryhole is very arousing! No strings, no face; just a stranger's big dick being serviced by my loving wife!

I must also confess that, for me, there is a bit of latent bi-curiousness mixed in. To some degree I envy her having the opportunity to pleasure that big cock (and herself!) knowing that I not only approve but encourage her slutty behavior. The fact is I'd love to touch, stroke & suck that big cock & fondle those heavy, hanging balls too! Unlike her though, I think 'd like to swallow.

Occasionally when we're having sex, I will describe scenes where she is acting slutty or being fucked by someone else and she goes along and actually enjoys it. Sometimes I'll spank her while she sucks my cock, telling her she's a bad girl for sucking "that other guy's" cock. She gets very wet and it's usually not long before she is begging me to fuck her!

I just love the look on her face when I am fucking her and is lost in lustful bliss. Sometimes I think of that look on her face as someone else is fucking her, someone with really big dick and I usually come fast and hard at that point ....

So, that's my cuckold story. Not for everybody but since someone asked .....

The thoughts I have with my wife if a threesome as she already has a big cock stuffing her pussy! My fantasy is a threesome.

 

[Notaes]

I like to see my cock go into a woman that has NEVER had a HUGE one. I love the looks on their faces

I can relate! I love the look on my wife's face when I slide my big cock balls deep into her pussy. I'm pretty girthy as well as hung! She always tells me how big my cock is and I love to fuck in positions where I can see my cock in her pussy. It looks so fucking thick as well as long good night in and out of her pussy. I love to put my fingers around my cock and feel my wet flesh inside her wet flesh. It makes me hard thinking about it. I love to fuck her with my hand next to her pussy. I ask her how she takes it all she tells me she just had to relax. I love having my cock all 8 inches buried deep inside her Pussy. It feels like she swallowed my cock. I would love to double penetrate her pussy with another guy who is maybe either same size or smaller. She wouldn't want any bigger because she has made that plain many times. I have all the cock she wants length and girth wis e. I love to loose myself in the erotic feelings to where you get lost in the pleasure and just fuck like animals.

 

[Notaes]

I have been interested in being a Bull in a cuckold relationship if both of them were totally committed to the encounter. I wouldn't want to put a wedge in their relationship but rather fulfill the wife's desires to be satisfied by a muscular Bull and the husband wanting to be made to feel inadequate, both in a physical and sexual manner. So far no luck in finding such a couple

I think I would enjoy being a bull with my cock!

 

[AsianGal]

My own theory is there are various reasons men may be aroused by observing or thinking about "their" woman having sex with another man. For me it doesn't necessarily need to be "my" woman, although that fantasy is one of my several favorites; and, of course, the "other guy" always has a big cock!

And before I explain, for me, there is a huge difference between "wife sharing" or "hot wife" scenarios and the humiliation aspect that seems to be associated with the term cuckold. For ME, I don't want to be humiliated or ridiculed while enjoying sex. Not my thing. It may be part of someone else's kink, and that's cool; just not my thing.

The main turn-on for me is watching my usually reserved and "well-behaving" member of the community behaving in such a wanton & taboo way. I mean, if we all enjoy sex and "porn", what could be a bigger turn-on than watching your wife acting like a porn star? In that regard, the fantasy of watching my wife suck cock at a gloryhole is very arousing! No strings, no face; just a stranger's big dick being serviced by my loving wife!

I must also confess that, for me, there is a bit of latent bi-curiousness mixed in. To some degree I envy her having the opportunity to pleasure that big cock (and herself!) knowing that I not only approve but encourage her slutty behavior. The fact is I'd love to touch, stroke & suck that big cock & fondle those heavy, hanging balls too! Unlike her though, I think 'd like to swallow.

Occasionally when we're having sex, I will describe scenes where she is acting slutty or being fucked by someone else and she goes along and actually enjoys it. Sometimes I'll spank her while she sucks my cock, telling her she's a bad girl for sucking "that other guy's" cock. She gets very wet and it's usually not long before she is begging me to fuck her!

I just love the look on her face when I am fucking her and is lost in lustful bliss. Sometimes I think of that look on her face as someone else is fucking her, someone with really big dick and I usually come fast and hard at that point ....

So, that's my cuckold story. Not for everybody but since someone asked .....

I don't know much about cuckolding but I've always thought there has to be some sort of 'bi' aspect when a guy is interested in it... it doesn't have to be the case but your story is interesting.

 

[playbiplay]

I'm not so much into the humiliation aspect of it so I guess I'm not fully into the cuckold scenario. However the one aspect of it that us a HUGE turn on for me is the idea of a sexually insatiable Slut Goddess...dominant but not in the BDSM sense (maybe you call it assertive lol). Society seems to devalue female sexual expression to this day, and women are conditioned to be ashamed of it, so maybe the novelty of seeing a woman unapologetic and even proud of being sexual is what does it for me.

For me when a woman strongly expresses her sexual desire and demands to be pleased it is not just sexually arousing but actually BEAUTIFUL. A woman having a powerful orgasm is beautiful beyond sexual stimulation for me and it would make me feel good to help make that happen whether through being with me or by inviting others to share in it.

But humiliating the cuckold is not my thing. If he wants to be passive, just watch or otherwise be not fully involved that is OK, but I can't wrap my head around the idea of putting him down being a turn on. I would instead tell him how beautiful his wife looks and feels and smells and tastes and tell him what a good husband he is for being selfless in his quest to satisfy his wife and perhaps act as a bit of a teacher to show him new ways to please her himself.

With me being bi I also think that adds another dimension to it as well. Some women may be very turned on to see their husbands submit to a more dominant man and enjoy being filled with a cock. It's a bit of a fantasy scenario of mine (hasn't happened...yet lol) to have her husband suck my cock clean after I cum in her (maybe to show her some new perspectives on sucking cock at the same time hehe), and once he has sucked me to full hardness make him lick his wife clean while I take his ass...and his wife and I get to cum again while we share him as our willing eager little fuck toy...and everybody is happy lol

 

[amazzzed2]

I would love to hear more people's experiences, whether as a cuckold, wife, or bull.