About cumming

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  1. atlas23

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    I wanted to know if any of you guys have a way in which you can go faster and faster while having sex and not come. I'm aksing because it so happens that every time that I get at it really fast, it seems like I lose control and I end up cuming when I don't want to. Any advice?
     
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    Slow Down!!! :cool:
     
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    perhaps right? lol
     
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    I've found that if you practice tensing up your dick when masturbating; in otherwords when you feel like you are about to cum, grab your dick firmly and tense your groin muscles when you feel like you are about to cum. If you practice doing this when you are masturbating, it will help you last longer when you are having sex. Hope this helps.
     
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    I think if I grab it firmly, it will make me cum faster :S
    Thanks for the help!
    Any other ways that you guys try?
     
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    Do what DM7816 says. It will help. Maybe you could try jerking with lube and the longer you can go with lube, the longer you'll hold off when having sex
     
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    That's just animal instinct. Enjoy
     
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    I'll try that again then...
     
  9. thadjock

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    edging while jaking is the best way to train urself to hold ur load when fucking

    practice makes perfect, take ur time, get in touch with your dik.

    too many guys treat JO as just a quick pressure relief activity, a bad habit cuz then ur cock wants to get off that way all the time.
     
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    Agree 110% here.

    I've also found that playing around my your pelvic floor muscles can make a big difference. In my case, flexing them actually makes me cum faster and relaxing them makes me last longer. Your mileage may vary on that one, just experiment.
     
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    What you are experiencing, is nature's intent. You go faster, then you blow. Then, comes junior.
    If you want to hold out, learn to grip with your Kegel muscles, to shut off the ejaculation.
    It's not easy to do when you are being overwhelmed with sensation, but it can be learned.
    It is using the same muscles you use to stop peeing.
    Good luck, and enjoy the practicing.
     
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