Issue with an ex that has been bugging me so I'm hoping to find out the meaning behind it. When I asked her how she liked it she said she was used to being thrown on the bed with 3 minutes of just slamming which was cool with me, so thats what we would try to do. But I like going for more than 3 minutes ( if I can that day ). Heres where it got weird when I would pull out to replace the condom she would never let me back in, but if I initially lasted for 10,20,30,40 minutes she would never say a thing and seemed to enjoy it. After months of me nagging her and her giving BS excuses she finally gave a serious answer( I thought it was ) that my penis hurts her. I know she would always hold me back from slamming even though she said thats what she liked. I'm clueless with this I just think she wasn't into the sex and didn't want to make me feel bad. My penis isn't THAT big 8" x 5.25" def. not that thick to hurt.