Us men here on lpsg, we ask the women alot of questions about how to do certain things right sexually. Usually, the answere is that every woman is different, and that you should communicate, and your girl will tell you how she likes whatever. BUT, it seems to me, that the woman never wants to tell a man how she realy wants it. They expect us to know. I always hear girls say "i need to find a man who KNOWS how to please me!" Well if every woman is different, the only way you are going to get a man who knows exactly how to please you, is if you tell him. Why dont women want to tell men what gets them off? Is it like a secret womans code?!?! Or am i wrong? Somwhat right? What about you ladies? What are any of you guy's experience with this type of communication with a woman?