Since this is an Appearance issue for me, I thought this would go in here I use to be very shy and modest about sex and relationships, but latley, I've gone through a transformation from being shy to less shy , but I am doing more independent things like shaving my chest, pubs, trimming leg hairs, and other things. One thing I do want tho more then anything right now are abs, the ones that look like you can eat off of em . I'm not lazy at all. I workout and such, but I just have never seemed to get abs. I'm 5'6''-5'7'', 165 lbs, I lift alot of weight for my size. I want abs because I feel as tho they'd make me feel alot beter with myself and would give me more confidence which I really need. Does anybody have any advice on what I should do to get them? Go on a Diet? a certain workout you can sugest?