martin60018
Expert Member
since I am gay, I dont really expect anything physical. Good gay friends just dont really go there, we become "sisters" (siblings) so no sexual stuff. but between my best straight friend and I, once in a while he'd lean on me etc. then pull back remembering that I am gay. and hot for his bones. he knows this but we talk affectionately about it and all his sexual adventures he had and now with his wife and about his kids etc. and I tell him my reckless abandon etc. so we are open and affectionate mentally with each other. when we were younger we had a few good hugs. and he used to be more physical with me leaning etc. but now since we have know each other for so long, nothing is taboo anymore, I am just waiting for more, but he is str8 so that is the way it is. since he is married, he doesnt use me as his pick up anymore. we used to go out together and he was too shy to talk to anyone, so I did all the opening of conversations for him. good friend he is, he tried to return the favor for me at a gay bar long ago and got hit on so much that night that he said he wasnt coming to the gay bar with me anymore. blessing in disguise cause you have a hard time ditching a good str8 friend if a trick developed and you drove together.
all you gays out here can relate to this.