hi there has anyone found it hard to accept that they are bisexual I have been struggling for sometime why I don't know the feeling are mad and each day the urges feeling differ.. one day I can just devour a guy and other days I feel repelled by the idea mad world, some days I feel exited by the thought of being gay
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its not easy for anyone. society has a fixed patriarchal structure and its not easy to go outside that (although it is getting better). you are not alone mate!
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- Hoss,
It was not too difficult for me. Maybe some of it had to do with a supportive family and a good group of friends who didn't make an issue of it for the most part. Yes there were a handful who made silly comments but I think it was because they were concerned how society in general might react.
The other help was that I was comfortable with my sexuality. Didn't make a difference to me if I was in love with a man or a woman or if I was sandwiched in the middle of them. Also I didn't care what other people thought about me being bisexual. Either they were good with it or they weren't and if they made an issue out of it, then I waved goodbye to them and we parted ways. Hard to do but must be done at times.
Reading what you are dealing with andy, it seems you are still stuck with what the world thinks. ":idea mad world:".
Screw what they think go with what you feel inside you and what makes your trombone throb. Sure there will be the occasional jerk who makes an issue out of your sexuality, that is their problem don't let it be yours and don't let it keep you from enjoying a man or a woman whichever excites you at the moment.
Wishing you the best on this.
Completely agree with Hoss. I never "came out" as bisexual, just because I didn't feel the urge to broadcast it to the world. But I've never been hiding it either. Sometimes I brought home a boy, sometimes a girl and my family and friends were fine with that.
I've probably been very lucky, but I think it also has something to do with being comfortable with yourself. It never bothered me, so why should it bother anyone else?
I've probably been very lucky, but I think it also has something to do with being comfortable with yourself. It never bothered me, so why should it bother anyone else?
