Accomodating a Smaller Guy

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  1. rope9839

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    I am used to the fact that there is a "process" to comfortable initial penetration with most women when you have a thick cock. Rocking and nudiging a bit at a time until you can push the last bit of the way in.

    What I wondered is if this is different with smaller guys. Do you have to go throught he same sort of thing, loosening up to accomodate him, or do some just "slip right in" without a lot of fuss.
     
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    Haven't the experience to answer this one, as I've only been w/ ex (who was probably average-never measured) & currnet partner who is well-endowed & performs rocking & nudging everytime. hope this one sticks (pun intended). ;-)
     
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    Mine is 6" and only 4.5" around. No prep is needed in my case. Slips right in. There certainlty seems to be no need for them to adjust anything.

    It makes me feel like it isn't doing anything for them...little stretch, little friction or pressure against the vaginal walls. It takes a firm erection and a lot of movement to let them know something is inside them! I try, but I feel like it is far less pleasurable than a larger organ.
     
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    Scott,

    You are average, not small. Most women are 'average' too, so your size is not a problem with the vast majority of women out there!


    LapDog :p
     
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    What about the previous average guy. What was the process like with him?
     
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    Bump. I thought someone might have a thought on this.
     
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    i have an open relationship my sister and she say smaller guys slip right but the problem she has big guys and said smallguy she cannot feel
     
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    Plonk
     
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    ? Sorry if I am an idiot.
     
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    Plonk, or more often *plonk*, is the sound of a turd dropping to the bottom of a kill file. Basically it means I've set up my system so I'll never be able to hear him again.
     
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    Hungmoron almost never adds anything that isn't totally gross and/or offensive.
     
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    Ok, I get the problem with hungmoron.

    Still hoping for a little insight on the original question, though.
     
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    I'm just an average guy with a slightly above average sized penis. When the lady is properly aroused and lubricated, my old love-rod slides in beautifully - but I usually work it in slowly with short in and out strokes until I'm buried balls deep.
    Then I stimulate her in anyway she desires and continue it as long as she wants.
    Always think of the lady's pleasure first - and fortunately I have good stayingpower
    so I last as long as she requires. When she is completely satisfied, I bring myself to orgasm and ejaculate a big load of rich creamy semen deep inside her or where ever she desires it.
     
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    Mine's 5.5 x 5. and about 2" across.

    i always thought my length was a little short. but that girth and width was ok to maybe even a little above average (?)

    as for penetration, i definately have to do the rocking motion a bit. push in a little, pull back, push in slightly deeper, pull back, repeat until in.

    after a few times of doing this,,, your dick gets lubed with her juice and you start hitting the silk spots. then it is all glid and go.

    I assumed this is what most guys had to do to penetrate initially. (I've never had sex with lube on my dick. would image it would make first penetration easier.) But, in terms of fantasy and my own thoughts of being a "big touch bull for my lady", when i am having sex i like to image that my cock is thick and that she is therefore having to work with me to get it in comfortably.

    for guys whose girth is less than 5" around, do you expirience penetration like I do? or is it just slide in and go without the "baby steps?"
     
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    Most men fit naturally into most women. Yea!
     
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    but in SPH women all crave a sized 11 foot wearing a size 7 shoe.
     
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