acknowledging lpsg to your mates

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  1. D_James Fenimore Pooper

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    so i was wondering, have you ever referred someone in 'real life' (as opposed to online) to the LPSG domain? I have thought about it a few times especially with two close mates who are also well hung but I have this weird sense that it will crosses boundaries.

    I ask myself, does it raise uncomfortable questions - by not understanding the context of the site - about being found to be commenting on other dudes cocks which would you wouldnt do in 'real life'?

    I dunno half of me likes the prospect of opening up a new level of honesty and potential comparison but i tend to think this is probably just fantasy. Obviously it depends on the individual(s), but how do you think it would go down with your mates?
     
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    I've told a couple of friends, including my bf, that I'm on a 'sex forum' lol...but haven't told them the name of it. Mainly for the following reasons:
    1. I like being anonymous here, with no one who actually knows me so that I can ask any question I want and say anything I want without fear of being judged by such people.
    2. People will prob think I'm just a size queen if I tell them I'm on here. And that's not true.
     
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    I told a fuck buddy about the site a few years back and she joined at my suggestion. (In fact, her hands are in one of the photos in my gallery). It was cool knowing someone IRL that was also a member of the lpsg community. No drama or anything.

    We stopped hooking up a few years ago and last I checked, she hadn't logged on here since.
     
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    I told my mates about this site; it was during when it was late at night and everyone had some drinks telling stories about their thoughts on porn.
    I took the risk. I said that I went on because of the advice and funny stories.

    So far I know 3 of them have visited the site however only 1 person apart from me admits to frequent it.
    I don't know if my mate has a user name and neither does he know my user name which is for the best.
    He does like to mention the discussions on this site when we get explore the topic of sex.
    I found it was a good risk, however it's all about how you sell the idea to the audience that makes them check it out; whether or not they stay is another thing; plus if they admit it hehe. :D
     
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    I lost a friend of 10 years because I let him know about this site, once he found out that my pictures were on here and saw them he lost his mind.
    He started to make unwanted advances towards me and I even sat him down with my wife and confronted him with this to let him know that it wasn't cool, he said that it wouldn't happen again and it did.
    Needless to say, I lost what I thought was a good friend because he became obsessed with my dick and couldn't control himself.
     
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    I will occasionally mention things "from this forum I visit online", but I never divulge the name, using the argument that I wish to keep my online and real-life lives apart.
     
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    Of course I have. Also some of my friends are members on here. They are inquisitive like most human beings are about penises because our culture STILL isn't open about what is forbidden, although things seem to be changing slowly.
     
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    No. If I need context for a story I'll say "on a sex forum."

    I almost told one friend a few times starting a few months ago because his most recent work is suddenly relevant, but while I adore him and we've been friends for decades, I don't think he could keep it a secret and since he knows probably 50% of all the other people I know, I've resisted the temptation.
     
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    It's a crap shoot. You're playing with the potential to alienate, offend, turn on, or otherwise change what sounds like a couple of cool friendships.

    If you were already doing porn, and your mates were in on that, then the likelihood of LPSG changing things would be pretty slim. If not, then future decisions about every photo you put up, every posting you make, every online friend you make, will be influenced by the fact that real human interaction may be impacted.

    Weigh the potential benefits against the potential costs. Then make the call.
     
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    I've told a few if it's been relevant in convo, most didn't seem that bothered really. A few laughed, especially if i told them what the site name was! One friend said he was on a similar site to do with breast size (he's sending me a link!) and another was completely petrified at the thought of posting pics of his cock.

    Interesting way to gauge how exhibitionist people are. If you had asked me before i would have thought that both friends would have reacted the opposite way! I do enjoy the anonyminity of the site tho and doubt I would share my user name.
     
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    I have a friend who i'm particularly close with. We know about each other's little sexual kinks and experience and he introduced me to his secret thrill of doing cam sessions.

    I still haven't told him about me being on this site and i don't plan on to. I do like being sort of anonymous and free to say what i feel...even though he knows more about me than anyone on Earth. Honestly, i could tell him about it and he would totally understand, but i just can't imagine saying "well, i frequent this site that has alot of good discussions and it just happens to be dedicated to big penises. i have some pics on the site, but i'm just average, really."

    Yeah, i'll go with no. The only thing we haven't done yet is seen each other's dicks and fucked each other so coming out about this site might be a bit much for me.
     
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    Will admit to friends, i belong to a Social Group, where we swap stories and share opinions, they never ask what it is, thank G.. or someone haha
     
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    i guess there is an element of comparison by proxy involved in my thoughts - to say that, where two friends might not be comfortable showing each other their cocks in such a context - perhaps common membership to the forum and submission of photos allows them not to think its weird or gay interaction between the two as its normalised behaviour?

    Contrary to normal behaviour would be getting your cock out to compare and each getting hard to prove the grower/shower result in person.
     
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    Referred someone to here from the live world? Never have most likely never will. I prefer certain areas of life to be private. Even having said that I have run into 3 people here from other places in life and at that time we acknowledged each other. Except for 1 person it's never been discussed in person, with him I had to.:redface:
     
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    I have but only in a vague joking way. Other times it was also nondescript but only because i was trying to tell them that help was out there for the problems they've had sexually and another time to cheer up a friend when they were self conscience about their size.

    I would never actually recommend anyone here specifically. Both for their and my anonymity.
     
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    I promote this site quite a bit, with my friends around me, and on the net, and certainly helped a few folks over at South Park Studios with this place that needed it.

    As it happens, just send 2 over from SP Studios that seamed interested.
     
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    I told a big-dicked, straight, open-minded (non-homophobic) friend about this site, and he visited and laughed his ass off and told his then-girlfriend about visiting here. :rolleyes:

    He didn't understand that I was referring him here because I thought he'd be among fellow big cocks and might like to discuss issues. Instead, he thought that I went here because I was obsessed with big cocks.

    I explained to him that I enjoyed the social interaction, but I think he still thinks that I'm a (stereo)typical gay size queen. Oh, well. :redface:

    A friend told me about her husband's big cock and then said she shouldn't have done so because in her experience, every gay man who found out that her husband was well-endowed became obsessed with trying to see it IRL. I told her I'd seen big cocks in the showers and had a few in my mouth and didn't need to see her husband's or have sex with him--that in fact, I thought of him as her man and as a good friend in his own right. And I don't have sex with friends.

    Also, as I explained to her, he didn't have any control over how big his dick grew, so in my view it was just like his big protruding ears, the gap in his front teeth, and his premature bald spot :tongue:: just a part of him. That part could be celebrated or not, depending on the situation, just like any other part.

    And frankly, that's how I still feel. Yeah, sure, there are some men who are amazingly beautiful and whose beauty is accentuated by the size and shape of their genitals--but I've had plenty of tremendously erotic experiences with men with average or small genitals, so for me, size is just another attribute of a man.

    NCbear (who's much more excited by a man who has imagination and who communicates his needs than by attributes like size that cannot be controlled)
     
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    No, as I think I might get unwanted attention from them.
     
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    I had T shirts made with my username@lpsg.org on them.
    K. Not really.....
    But,
    How about business cards to hand out? This cougar with huge fake tits was in the office yesterday flirting and showing off her boobs. I wish I had a card to give her with my lpsg contact info and pictures on it...
     
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    I've told my best friend about it and he ended up making his own account
     
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