Ok, last girl I dated would be all flirty and nice and stuff, listened to hip hop bump and grind music and loved it. Then we started dating, the music taste didn't change, she acts all flirty a lot and seductive and stuff, but then after the relationship got more serious, and we had sex, it died off after while and she definitely didn't want it as much and in arguments she said "I just did it because I thought it was what YOU wanted". Yet this girl has been wearing thongs for 10 years and talks about being and wanting to be sexy, would act all flirty before dating and in the early stages of dating. After we started having sex (probably 1 1/2 months into dating) we had it almost all the time. Then, it was like 1 or 2 times a week. And we only went out for 6-7 months. I've heard of girls acting that way to attract a guy but they are truly cold fish. Is this the case? Have I just answered my own question and made another of 16095404 pointless threads?