bigsoft: When I was a kid, my brother and I were playing in my parents room. On the floor beside the bed under my dad's boxer shorts, we found this small round pillow with a hole in the center. It looked like a big donut. Anyway, we took it into the family room and were throwing it around. Mom came in and saw what we had. She looked shocked and she quickly took it away from us. We were told not to go into our parents room again without permission. I never thought anymore about the "donut" until years later when I began stealing a Dad's boxers from his drawer. Under his stack of boxers was the donut and a box of condoms. I had seen my dad naked on a regular basis and knew he was horse hung. Finally it dawned on me what the donut was. I was an adapter to keep him from penetrating too far and hurting Mom during sex. I have never seen one of these adapters since. Have any of you guys ever seen one or used one?