Addicted to LPSG???

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this is not normal...get out and socialize.......don't you have any close friends or acquaintenances? what did you do before you found LPSG.?. get away from the computer every so often..... I mean go out and bowl, shopping, anything that will allow you to not let this consume your time..this is an addiction if you allow it to be so....just look around you..so many of these frustrated people on here have let this become a way of life..they argue and bicker and actually use this as a means of socialization....thse peole are strangers sweetie..what has happened in your life that you have allowed yourself to disclose to strangers and not your close friends..or did you not have any friends?

arliss... shhhhh... have you been reading my mind?! Are you a psychiatrist?!

* gasp *

Other than my bf, family, and the occasional fuck-bud, I didn't HAVE any social life... unless you consider hanging out with your kids (and their friends) a social life!!

My gfs know nothing about my "nightlife" and would probably be shocked and horrified, so I can't really talk with them. Men don't wanna talk they just want my number. Gay friends just want to f___ my bf (he's real purty). And I couldn't seem to get a deep, interesting conversation going with ANYONE...

So... I was ecstatic to find LPSG... because LPSG contains people just as interested in sex and other "off color topics" as I am.
 

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Community! This is all about a community feeling, like at other community, social and networking sites, it is a component not the whole enchilada.

It may be a bit much to make community sites your "everything" when it comes to socializing. The interpersonal part is missing, or gets lost because it's forgotten, not maintained or nutured.

I think Arliss has it pretty much right. I'm not sure everyone here has but one outlet for community or socializing, LPSG.
 

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On the other hand, Hotmilf, you do have a good point with the fact that not just anyone would understand the "dirty" under-belly of a normal drive to express oneself fully, whether it be sexually or otherwise. Hell, people think I'm strange for loving the Fights. In fact there are community sites for this seeming dis-connect as well.
 

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Well I have wondered about this myself. But I guess as long as it does not interfere with my job or home life it is not a problem. :wink:

be careful that it doesn't:wink: :rolleyes:for a lot of people this has become a place to seek solace...LPSG has become their security blanket...their comfort zone...and they cannot readily accept the changes that come with this internet forum...for them out with the old and in with the new is discomforting...they have established friendships here...it's really very sad..most peole here are introverted...and make friends easily on the comp..but cannot sustain normal healthy relationships outside of LPSG...
 

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this is not normal...get out and socialize.......don't you have any close friends or acquaintenances? what did you do before you found LPSG.?. get away from the computer every so often..... I mean go out and bowl, shopping, anything that will allow you to not let this consume your time..this is an addiction if you allow it to be so....just look around you..so many of these frustrated people on here have let this become a way of life..they argue and bicker and actually use this as a means of socialization....these peole are strangers sweetie..what has happened in your life that you have allowed yourself to disclose to strangers and not your close friends..or did you not have any friends?


LOLZ!!! Normal, what is normal? Whose right is it to make that judgement?.......I socialise enough as anyone needs to, both online and offline(at least for someone who has trouble standing or walking on some days)........I have as many close friends and acquaintances as I desire, one of whom I may have met on LPSG. These aren't mediaeval times, communication has evolved to many formats........Before LPSG, I did the same thing I do after I found LPSG - my life doesn't centre around this site, just because I spend a lot of time here........This site doesn't "consume" any of my time. I spend a lot of time at my computer, for both business and pleasure - I check LPSG(among other websites) when I have a spare moment. I enjoy reading some of the dialogues here........The arguements that are transpiring here lately are of no concern to me........Quarelling over the internet does not mean one needs counselling........One of these "strangers" has become a friend of mine, I never dreamt or forecasted that would happen, but it has........Not that it's any business of yours to analyse what I say to who, and why I say it........lmaoooooo........:friday::Flush::wave:
 

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LOLZ!!! Normal, what is normal? Whose right is it to make that judgement?.......I socialise enough as anyone needs to, both online and offline(at least for someone who has trouble standing or walking on some days)........I have as many close friends and acquaintances as I desire, one of whom I may have met on LPSG. These aren't mediaeval times, communication has evolved to many formats........Before LPSG, I did the same thing I do after I found LPSG - my life doesn't centre around this site, just because I spend a lot of time here........This site doesn't "consume" any of my time. I spend a lot of time at my computer, for both business and pleasure - I check LPSG(among other websites) when I have a spare moment. I enjoy reading some of the dialogues here........The arguements that are transpiring here lately are of no concern to me........Quarelling over the internet does not mean one needs counselling........One of these "strangers" has become a friend of mine, I never dreamt or forecasted that would happen, but it has........Not that it's any business of yours to analyse what I say to who, and why I say it........lmaoooooo........:friday::Flush::wave:
good for you...now run along..I was having a conversation with hotmilf not you..my comments were food for thought for hotmilf....run along and do what you do ... and next time pay attention...before you run off at the mouth...you obviously do not have good socialization skills...i think you are spending too much time on the net...perhaps you too should get away from the comp and take a deep breath...it would do you a bit of good.....you are wound too tight......you might wind up popping a blood vessell.......:biggrin1: :biggrin1: :biggrin1:although you are proving me to be correct...your behavior is an example of what I have just stated....LMAOOO...dude we are strangers..get a grip..your comments are not significant to me....they are neither here or there.....I respond because I get a kick out of seeing how easily folks such as yourself can become so emotional over someone else's thoughts..if you do not share the same thoughts so be it...but no need to get carried away...show some self restraint...LMAOOOOOOO ah the net is a wonderful place...
 

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i'm beginning to think i'm addicted as well... i've spent the last 6 hours on here without even crcking open my textbook i'm supposed to be studying from. I just love cock too much and this site is an enabler for that addiction...:eek:
 

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but as for friends, I have plenty.. i don't look for friendship on websites but i do find people who tend to have the same interests in cock as i do... lol
 

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Thanks for bringing this up. I wanted to ask it also.

I think it is addicting, especially if I am looking to waste time. I've spent a little more time here in the last month than I should have. But I probably would have wasted the time doing something else anyway. I like to justify it by thinking that I am learning or gaining something and that's true to some extent. What you learn is sometimes not tangible. I don't have a lot of posts, but I read a lot. Eventually I get sick of it and cut back for a while, so it's not so bad.

In the last 1.5 years I've noticed some people that would post an incredible number messages. I figured they were just better/faster at writing than me. I think some of them eventually get sick of it and leave or let themselves get banned. (Spladle comes to mind.) I wonder how long andyo will last.
 

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good for you...now run along..I was having a conversation with hotmilf not you..my comments were food for thought for hotmilf....run along and do what you do ... and next time pay attention...before you run off at the mouth...you obviously do not have good socialization skills...i think you are spending too much time on the net...perhaps you too should get away from the comp and take a deep breath...it would do you a bit of good.....you are wound too tight......you might wind up popping a blood vessell.......:biggrin1: :biggrin1: :biggrin1:although you are proving me to be correct...your behavior is an example of what I have just stated....LMAOOO...dude we are strangers..get a grip..your comments are not significant to me....they are neither here or there.....I respond because I get a kick out of seeing how easily folks such as yourself can become so emotional over someone else's thoughts..if you do not share the same thoughts so be it...but no need to get carried away...show some self restraint...LMAOOOOOOO ah the net is a wonderful place...

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you have logged 1600 posts since Feb.you are addicted and spend more than a spare moment on here....and you are very baitable I might add LMAOOOO

It's a shame you can only realise the most overt meanings in my post. Baitable indeed.
I asked you before not to PM me, this time I'm telling you not to.

For future reference, if your conversation does not involve someone, it's considered a rather strange practice to quote and respond to them.
 

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It's a shame you can only realise the most overt meanings in my post. Baitable indeed.
I asked you before not to PM me, this time I'm telling you not to.

For future reference, if your conversation does not involve someone, it's considered a rather strange practice to quote and respond to them.

I quoted you to show hotmilf that your frame of thinking is off kilter....and at this point I think you are way to sensitive ...and are personalizing this..... but hey this is the way you are used to operating...for me ...life is to short..I am about enjoying life and having fun...not bickering with strangers...but to each his own....I would like to point out that you need to examine your conscious and ask yourself if maybe your handicap is making you somewhat irritable...and anxious..I have a close friend who has trouble walking and standing at times..and he has bad days and lashes out at everyone....he sought out counseling..and is doing fine...just a thought .....
 

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* sniff *

I love ya both, and I found valuable (although different) information in BOTH your posts! So thank you to you both. I know ya both trying to help me.

Now excuse me... I gotta check this really sad thread in Women's Tissues....

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I'll be honest with you. I think it's really good you're concerned about your participation here because I really think people don't ask themselves these questions unless they're aware of and concerned with what might be a problem. I think there are plenty of good reasons to hang around a site like this, but I'm also a big proponent of getting off the damn computer and doing something useful. The classic question is whether or not what you're doing here will negatively impact stuff you should be doing. I add to that: Are you tricking yourself a little bit when you answer "no?"

My most recent outlet is working out. And sometimes I look at what I do on the Internet and think, damn, I waste a lot of time out here. So make yourself a deal. Next time that thought runs through your head, you're dead on, and you need to get off the computer and do something else. Don't care what it is. Just step away from the keyboard (no matter how handsome all these cocks look). Deal?
 

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For me the issue isn't how much time you're spending here but what you would be doing instead, if you'd just be watching tv because you can't go out because of kids then it's a healthy thing, it is communication; however, if you're choosing to come on here when you have the choice of seeing friends or going out then I think it's a problem.
 

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So make yourself a deal. Next time that thought runs through your head, you're dead on, and you need to get off the computer and do something else. Don't care what it is. Just step away from the keyboard (no matter how handsome all these cocks look). Deal?

LOL -- kinda like those novelty-item cookie jars that say, "Step away from the cookie jar" when you open the lid?!

ANd to prove that I'm hopelessly addicted, I remember your post about moving -- I listened to your voice message, and left you a comment... even though I hadn't "met" you before! (BTW, you have a great voice and I luv yr hairdo!)

So... now that we're properly introduced (!), thanks for caring, and YES, that's very good advice... that I will take as soon as I've finished reading that oh-so-sad thread in "Women's Tissues"....:biggrin1:


PS: I know I sound flippant, but I really do agree with you and I will do that.:wink:
 

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For me the issue isn't how much time you're spending here but what you would be doing instead, if you'd just be watching tv because you can't go out because of kids then it's a healthy thing, it is communication; however, if you're choosing to come on here when you have the choice of seeing friends or going out then I think it's a problem.

You're absolutely right. I know it's obvious, and I know I tell myself these things... but when someone else articulates them, ir helps to crystallize more in my head.