Addicted to sex?

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  1. tiff86

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    So, it's 2 AM, here I am in my room, my boyfriend is out of town, and I'm feeling horny. We talked on the phone this evening and had kinda spontaneous phone sex which only made things worse! I'm not used to this. Is that the down side to really great sex, that you get addicted? Ugh. Anyone else had this problem?
     
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    Only for as long as I can remember
     
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    Well, in my present situation iam very horny because im single...and when im not single im very horny with a partner...but i dont think iam addicted to sex...if i was i was having a lot...

    I like sex but with intimacy in relationship and for this im not having lots of sex..yet...:biggrin1:

    No, im not addicted to sex.
     
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    An addiction is something:
    1. You do compulsively and
    2. You feel like hiding from others, except maybe the ones you're doing it with, and with them it feels like a dirty secret.

    So, I'm not addicted.
    But I enjoy the hell out of it.
     
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    Hick honey..

    Please explain to me the difference to be horny and aroused? Its the same?:confused:
     
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    Horny is more extreme than aroused? Like aroused you might just get hard....

    But if you're horny you get rock hard and wanna fuck the shit out of someone/something.

    I like sex a lot although I am not addicted, since I'm not having to go to extremes to get it or having it everyday. When I do get it though, I make up for the time I've missed...
     
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    Good question. Never gave it much thought. I guess horny is just another stage of arousal, where I want sex and am not in the process of having it... :confused:

    Just craving something doesn't necessarily mean one is addicted, I believe.
     
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    I'm a sex addict....no doubt about it. Can't really remember a time that I wasn't. If I'm not doing it, I'm thinking about doing it, or watching someone else do it. I always figured I was weird, and I guess I am...but at least I fit right in around here - lol :)
     
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    Come lie on the couch so we can discuss this.
     
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    Now now, Hickboy.... Don't forget to respect the "Doctor/Patient" rule. Hands must be kept to yourself:rolleyes:
     
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    I am not addicted 2 sex as long as i fuck about 3 times a day
     
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    How is it that you ended up on top of and on bottom of me??? U got skills baby!! :smile:

    and BTW - HOW did you know about my therapist/patient fantacy?? I've been having that one since the late 80's (Breakfast Club)....haha!!

     
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    I know i know im overreacting..but the word 'addiction' using in a light way i can not handle good...at all...

    In my personal experiences addiction is destructive :eek: and bring me painful memories...and maybe because of that i cant use it lightly...i just cant bcause it brought a lot of suffering to my life and family and etc...

    But for sure Tiff use it in a different way than mine...of course.
     
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    I think on some level we're all addicted to having orgasms - I mean have you had one? Once you get one, don't you just want more and more? :tongue:

    But yeah... addiction the word does have enough negative connotations associated with it to seem out of context when used with sex... so let's just say you're a sex enthusiast as opposed to sex addict, doesn't sound as bad.
     
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    Tangled in this web of mine
    Tryin to make some sense of what I'm feelin
    You're still runnin through my veins
    And I can't get enough, but I'm dealin

    I know it's wrong
    You're my addiction
    You keep me strong
    Tell me how long
    Will this addiction be my addiction?

    You're some kind of drug
    When I'm without it there's no life in any part of me
    People tell me that I can't be truthful
    I don't know if I want to be

    :D

    Also:

    "Once you pop, you can't stop" !
     
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    It's probably possible to be addicted to sex. There's a support group like Alcoholics Anonymous for "sex addicts" but I think that's more for people whose need for sex outweighs their need for other things like normal relationships, jobs, houses..

    Sex can be an amazingly destructive force in a life, but I like to think that most people have it under control in reality, even if not in fantasy, and that we use it to bond with others in a healthy way.

    If we talk fantasy, I'm definitely a sex addict. I think about it in nearly endless varieties ALL the time. :eek:
     
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    I'm definitely addicted to sex....my addiction meets the criteria of 1) compulsiveness and 2) dirty secrets

    It's wonderful, isn't it?
     
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    Ladies,

    I think we have some issues working here. Many of the women on this board fall within an age group where they are at their sexual peaks right now. There of course are some who have higher drives than other, but think most women who are on this board probably qualify as having higher than average drives. Now, How we go about dealing with those drives may say something about whether there is addiction present or not. WOuldnt it be great to live in an ideal world where we all had virile partners whose drives matched our own and didnt play the shame and blame game if they didnt?
     
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    All these ladies, addicted to sex... :1244:

    Not me though, I never even think about it :wink:
     
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    The word is "testosterone", baby!
     
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