Addicted to sex?

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Wouldn't say I'n addicted, but I do have a very strong compulsion to have sex everyday. If I don't do it on a daily basis, it feels as if something is lacking from my day. It's not a daily habit like having to take a shower or brushing my teeth. I need the feel-good hormones released by sex.
 

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tiff86 said:
Hey I was thinking is it possible to get addicted to orgasms? Yeah I know, great thing to get addicted to. I just posted but I was thinking about it more and I wonder if I'm addicted to orgasms. I do feel kinda antsy. Now that I think about it it's probably something like runners high (which I have; I'm a runner). When my bf and I have sex he always makes me cum, sometimes I have a few:tongue: :tongue: . I'm still kinda new to this orgasm thing and I haven't figured out how to make myself cum masturbating yet (I've tried sooooo much and it just doesn't work:mad: ). So while he's gone no orgasms for me:mad: . I should probably work on that. Anyone ever have this problem and want to gimme some ideas? OK, I'll stop rambling now...:confused:

Sure, I think if you're used to having an orgasm (or "a few") on a daily basis and suddenly you're going without, you might miss the endorphins or some other chemical. Not my area of expertise but that makes sense to me. As for your problem of not being able to orgasm on your own, I'd ask you how your boyfriend makes you cum. If it's by oral, you should be able to masturbate to orgasm since it's still the clit. It would just a matter of practice I think. If he makes you orgasm by intercourse you might be more internally-orgasmic and should perhaps consider getting a dildo for those times when he's unavailable :biggrin1: . Good luck.
 

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Lee_M said:
I think for me personally im more addicted to cock than sex..Ive just broken up with my guy and i find im missing his cock more than the actual sex. I miss being able to touch or taste, feel, rub and stroke it or look at it or lick and suck it whenever i want.

Just knowing that i cant have it is worse than not having it

Wish I could be helpfull.....I usually feel like that after a break up, I miss that wet and sweet vagina, lips, playing with it, looking at it, separation anxiety....
If I could help....:rolleyes:
 

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stud_hunter said:
I'd ask you how your boyfriend makes you cum. If it's by oral, you should be able to masturbate to orgasm since it's still the clit. It would just a matter of practice I think. If he makes you orgasm by intercourse you might be more internally-orgasmic and should perhaps consider getting a dildo for those times when he's unavailable :biggrin1: . Good luck.

That's funny, you're the 2nd person who's said that to me today (no I don't go blabbing about sexual stuff to everyone but I do to my best friend and she suggested I get a dildo, even offered to get it for me!).
 

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Lee_M said:
I think for me personally im more addicted to cock than sex..Ive just broken up with my guy and i find im missing his cock more than the actual sex. I miss being able to touch or taste, feel, rub and stroke it or look at it or lick and suck it whenever i want.

Just knowing that i cant have it is worse than not having it

lee do u need any volunteers. it will be my pleasure..to just be there an let u do all those things i wont feel bad at all
 

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its always good to think about it Deb..
if you have the rite person addiction is ok to.
 

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Very good point LeeM! I totally agree! In fact 99% of the time I am not satisfied until I have that physical contact with my man. I can surf porn, chat here, think dirty, masturbate, etc all day long. That urge won't go away so that I can focus on other things until I do what I've thought about all day. That doesn't happen, unless there is a cock nearby. And then, all he has to do is show it to me and I'm like putty in his hands, can't resist ...must have ....gimme, gimme. Ahem, I digress. ...

One does however concur that maybe it is the cock that I'm addicted to....

Lee_M said:
I think for me personally im more addicted to cock than sex..Ive just broken up with my guy and i find im missing his cock more than the actual sex. I miss being able to touch or taste, feel, rub and stroke it or look at it or lick and suck it whenever i want.

Just knowing that i cant have it is worse than not having it
 

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tiff86 said:
So, it's 2 AM, here I am in my room, my boyfriend is out of town, and I'm feeling horny. We talked on the phone this evening and had kinda spontaneous phone sex which only made things worse! I'm not used to this. Is that the down side to really great sex, that you get addicted? Ugh. Anyone else had this problem?
Masturbate, stupid.

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Sex is in a way addicting...think about it. once you have it and it feels good you want to do it more and more! I can pinpoint only a few times I went more than 6 months without it. That is pretty bad...ugh!
 

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10man said:
lee do u need any volunteers. it will be my pleasure..to just be there an let u do all those things i wont feel bad at all

pichulon said:
Wish I could be helpfull.....I usually feel like that after a break up, I miss that wet and sweet vagina, lips, playing with it, looking at it, separation anxiety....
If I could help....:rolleyes:

Guys give me another week or two without a cock on hand and i may be calling upon you both for assistance..:wink:
 

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Lee_M said:
Guys give me another week or two without a cock on hand and i may be calling upon you both for assistance..:wink:

:sasmokin: patience is a virtue..... :wink:
 

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tiff86 said:
So, it's 2 AM, here I am in my room, my boyfriend is out of town, and I'm feeling horny. We talked on the phone this evening and had kinda spontaneous phone sex which only made things worse! I'm not used to this. Is that the down side to really great sex, that you get addicted? Ugh. Anyone else had this problem?

Tiff, you're not alone. My fiancee rocks my world to the point where I need it everyday! He calls me a nympho, I need it at least once a day. Great sex is addictive, and it definitely helps to have a huge one. If you miss him, get a big dildo. I have several and they keep me 'company' when we are apart on business trips. :cool:
 

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citygirl said:
Tiff, you're not alone. My fiancee rocks my world to the point where I need it everyday! He calls me a nympho, I need it at least once a day. Great sex is addictive, and it definitely helps to have a huge one. If you miss him, get a big dildo. I have several and they keep me 'company' when we are apart on business trips. :cool:

Yeah I'm going to get one soon. But then I've gotten this far I think I'm going to hold off on any sexual activity till my bf gets back in 3 days. I can't wait! No sex or orgasms for me for the past 2 wks almost :mad: .
 

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Well said! For me, I waited until my mid 30's to have sex, so I am making up for lost time!! (And having FUN doing it!)

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I think we have some issues working here. Many of the women on this board fall within an age group where they are at their sexual peaks right now. There of course are some who have higher drives than other, but think most women who are on this board probably qualify as having higher than average drives. Now, How we go about dealing with those drives may say something about whether there is addiction present or not. WOuldnt it be great to live in an ideal world where we all had virile partners whose drives matched our own and didnt play the shame and blame game if they didnt?