Adjusting Underwear - Is This Teasing?

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I see this guy at gym. He's very attractive. He looks very straight but always takes me in with his gaze when I'm in the shower area naked. I wonder if he is disapproving of me or what!!
Today he was undressing to go to the sauna and left on his white boxer briefs. When he would turn my way he would very so fleetingly look to see if I was looking. I made a point to appear absorbed in dressing myself. As he went to pick up his towel he very discreetly adjusted his underwear band just above his crotch area and moved his cock a fraction. It was very subtle but I am wondering why he did it. He then went to the sauna.
I was annoyed that I was dressing as if I had known he was finished training I would have joined him and made contact.
He is very good looking and rugged so I am doubtful that he's into men but maybe I'm wrong. What do you think of him adjusting his briefs knowing that we have made eye contact in the past that is more penetrating than is usual for guys.
 
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How do you look straight? Neil Patrick Harris doesn't look gay neither does Wentworth Miller. How do you know his sexual orientation just by looking at him.

It's called Gaydar. I may be wrong. He just doesn't give a gay "vibe" apart from holding a gaze longer than a straight man might. Maybe I sound like I'm stereotyping but don't you make judgements about a person's sexuality or am I alone?
 

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If I'm adjusting, it's because I have a pinch or or twist that needs attention.

I also wonder what "straight looking" means.

But all the eye contact etc. may indicate he's less straight than you think.
It's just odd that he twitched when he suspects I'm paying him a bit of attention. If it were me I'd hold off on twitching or adjusting. Maybe he was teasing.
 

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It's called Gaydar. I may be wrong. He just doesn't give a gay "vibe" apart from holding a gaze longer than a straight man might. Maybe I sound like I'm stereotyping but don't you make judgements about a person's sexuality or am I alone?
Does sound like you're stereotypetyping. I mean if he's looking at you for longer than normal that doesn't sound like something someone who is not interested would do. So I still don't see how you think he doesn't look gay. You also said he's rugged and good looking so you don't think he's into men. What does that have anything to do with him being gay?
 
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Yes I read my original post again. It does sound "off". How do I articulate it!? He looks very masculine. He's very attractive. I questioned why he stares when he sees me. I had thought it was a disapproving look because he picked up on my attraction to him. So when I saw him adjusting I wondered if he was teasing for the pure fun of it, sending a subtle signal that he may be interested or simply scratching an itch.