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if in a situation where someone is able to see you and they obviously enjoy it do you mind? and if as they admire they masturbate clearly looking at you say at a gym or shower, bath house...is that a bother?
It's not a bother lol The post that I referenced was a porn set. I am talking in real life. If I am talking to a teammate and I got hard I'd want to minimize my erection. That did happen to me once when only two of us were in the gym gang shower and my friend said that I had a nice dick. I now wish that I would have let myself get hard but at that moment I thought of something else to stop my arousal. So, I am asking has anyone just gone with it who was on either side of the erection lol? At the gym this guy comes into the steam room all chubbed up and was looking for attention. I said NICE DICK DUDE...and most of the guys froze in fear lol I guess that I am thinking more along the lines of a straight guy who gets an erection??? Does he own it or run?
 
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Has anyone been in the locker room where another man has a full-on erection? I'm not talking about where a guy might be cruising. I was at the river and my friend (married straight? guy) was in his board shorts and got hard. I didn't pay any attention (not that big lol) but it just happened. As an example, I had a good work out the other day and when I was showering I became erect. First time in my life that I really didn't care and there was an older guy who then too got hard. For me, it wasn't sexual. But if lets say I knew the guy I would have been uncomfortable. I understand why so I am curious about other men and their openness.
It's always been interesting to me that erections can be "non-sexual". I suppose the context it part of the criteria for what makes is sexual. To me, lockerroom are often sexual, but not always. I recall reading years ago that if you get a hard on in the showers or whatever, the best response, if it's noted is to say, "Damn thing has a mind of its own" and then laugh. I think that'd desexualize any situation like that. In short, I understand how a hard on might not really be about, say, making a move on another dude.
 

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Has anyone been in the locker room where another man has a full-on erection? I'm not talking about where a guy might be cruising. I was at the river and my friend (married straight? guy) was in his board shorts and got hard. I didn't pay any attention (not that big lol) but it just happened. As an example, I had a good work out the other day and when I was showering I became erect. First time in my life that I really didn't care and there was an older guy who then too got hard. For me, it wasn't sexual. But if lets say I knew the guy I would have been uncomfortable. I understand why so I am curious about other men and their openness.

There are a spa in town that has completely been co-opted by guys who look like this (no, I'm not saying one) and they'll walk around with erections tucked into the waistline of their towels (some ballsy ones will free ball).

They'll hit the showers and locker rooms and their erections will just flop out. I've seen many big ones but the most impressive are those that have a good 6+ inches from profile as they're probably 8+". There are a few guys whose cocks go more than halfway their knees and you're just like jeez.

I was recently at a European-style spa that is clothing optional. These two friends came in -- muscular middle aged guys that resembled porn stars (one looked a bit like Rafael Carreras and the other like Tyler Saint). Everything pretty much is in one area save for the showers and sauna in the back.

I was in the sauna when they came in. We chatted for awhile and I was surprised to learn they were straight (I thought they were an alpha gay couple) and in their fifties. I mean these guys' bodies would put the very best bodies on this board to shame.

After hanging out in the sauna they decided to shower and then hit the jacuzzi. Off came their towels and there were these two cocks, each thick and at least 6 inches soft (bigger than I am hard). One of the guys didn't even bother closing his shower door. He just strutted around.

They ended up in the jacuzzi and I was in the adjacent loungers. Even in the hot water their dicks still looked massive. There's a cold rain shower that they went under a few times and even then their dicks were still huge. Just two guys genetically blessed and obviously take care of themselves. They were super chill too and chatted with me several times (if they were gay they'd probably be the "no Asians" type and would ignore me).

So there are those who are blessed and the rest of us who can admire them. And it's always nice when big dicks aren't big pricks.
 

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There are a spa in town that has completely been co-opted by guys who look like this (no, I'm not saying one) and they'll walk around with erections tucked into the waistline of their towels (some ballsy ones will free ball).

They'll hit the showers and locker rooms and their erections will just flop out. I've seen many big ones but the most impressive are those that have a good 6+ inches from profile as they're probably 8+". There are a few guys whose cocks go more than halfway their knees and you're just like jeez.

I was recently at a European-style spa that is clothing optional. These two friends came in -- muscular middle aged guys that resembled porn stars (one looked a bit like Rafael Carreras and the other like Tyler Saint). Everything pretty much is in one area save for the showers and sauna in the back.

I was in the sauna when they came in. We chatted for awhile and I was surprised to learn they were straight (I thought they were an alpha gay couple) and in their fifties. I mean these guys' bodies would put the very best bodies on this board to shame.

After hanging out in the sauna they decided to shower and then hit the jacuzzi. Off came their towels and there were these two cocks, each thick and at least 6 inches soft (bigger than I am hard). One of the guys didn't even bother closing his shower door. He just strutted around.

They ended up in the jacuzzi and I was in the adjacent loungers. Even in the hot water their dicks still looked massive. There's a cold rain shower that they went under a few times and even then their dicks were still huge. Just two guys genetically blessed and obviously take care of themselves. They were super chill too and chatted with me several times (if they were gay they'd probably be the "no Asians" type and would ignore me).

So there are those who are blessed and the rest of us who can admire them. And it's always nice when big dicks aren't big pricks.
Last sentence says it all!
I love the (increasingly rare) occasions when guys just flop all around or get hard and don't give a fuck. I admire them actively, and it's a curious "head space." Sometimes it's really not sexual; it's more of a male bonding thing where you just want to admire them. I often feel the urge to ask them about their stories: where they grew up, how they knew they had big dicks, their locker room experiences (and, of course, did they grow up wearing jockstraps.).
 
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I love the (increasingly rare) occasions when guys just flop all around or get hard and don't give a fuck. I admire them actively, and it's a curious "head space." Sometimes it's really not sexual; it's more of a male bonding thing where you just want to admire them. I often feel the urge to ask them about their stories: where they grew up, how they knew they had big dicks, their locker room experiences (and, of course, did they grow up wearing jockstraps.).

Very rare and a long time since I have seen someone do this.
 

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Last sentence says it all!
I love the (increasingly rare) occasions when guys just flop all around or get hard and don't give a fuck. I admire them actively, and it's a curious "head space." Sometimes it's really not sexual; it's more of a male bonding thing where you just want to admire them. I often feel the urge to ask them about their stories: where they grew up, how they knew they had big dicks, their locker room experiences (and, of course, did they grow up wearing jockstraps.).

I want to ask the same questions. My friend told me the other day about a guy at his gym. He was in his 50's and had a great body. He had a towel on in the steam room but adjusted it no less than four times and exposed his flaccid large penis. My friend wanted to comment on it but didn't. I said he should have just done as I did once with a guy who was in show-off mode. I said NICE DICK DUDE and everyone freaked and it became super silent. Then, this guy says...you too man. He had a totally straight guy vibe but loved the attention...and who doesn't??? I've chatted online with guys and the one common theme is that most well-endowed guys didn't know that they have a large dick until later.

My experience is that I feel that I am very average. I can't see my large penis. And all my friends talk about my huge dick. I've had several friends of my friends hit on me. One through LinkedIn lol. I asked him directly; when did you see my dick? And he said in Palm Springs. Another time my friend asked in a group how many guys here have seen my dick...and four or more hands went up lol lol Go figure. It was awkward with a few guys whose partners where there lol But even though I love the attention I still think that I am average???
 

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I want to ask the same questions. My friend told me the other day about a guy at his gym. He was in his 50's and had a great body. He had a towel on in the steam room but adjusted it no less than four times and exposed his flaccid large penis. My friend wanted to comment on it but didn't. I said he should have just done as I did once with a guy who was in show-off mode. I said NICE DICK DUDE and everyone freaked and it became super silent. Then, this guy says...you too man. He had a totally straight guy vibe but loved the attention...and who doesn't??? I've chatted online with guys and the one common theme is that most well-endowed guys didn't know that they have a large dick until later.

My experience is that I feel that I am very average. I can't see my large penis. And all my friends talk about my huge dick. I've had several friends of my friends hit on me. One through LinkedIn lol. I asked him directly; when did you see my dick? And he said in Palm Springs. Another time my friend asked in a group how many guys here have seen my dick...and four or more hands went up lol lol Go figure. It was awkward with a few guys whose partners where there lol But even though I love the attention I still think that I am average???
You mean you really don't understand that your dick is above average? Surely you've seen enough porn to know what guys' dicks look like (Altho now that I write that, I suppose the bigger-than-average dicks that tend to populate porn might skew your perception.). Haven't you seen enough guys in real life to have a sense of how you compare?
I sit in the sauna on a towel usually in the corner with my back to one wall and my legs bent and my balls and cock just hanging for all to see.
 

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I was on a date and the guy next to me was kind of drunk. He hit my elbow and said excuse me. I did and he started to strike up a conversation. Next thing I know his hand was in my lap and he was feeling me up. Without warning he announced to everyone around us that I was packing a big one. Needless to say my date and I got out of there quickly because it was slightly embarrassing. The next time I was in that club the same guy was there and he introduced me to everyone he knew as "the guy with the big dick". Flattering but still...
 

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I was on a date and the guy next to me was kind of drunk. He hit my elbow and said excuse me. I did and he started to strike up a conversation. Next thing I know his hand was in my lap and he was feeling me up. Without warning he announced to everyone around us that I was packing a big one. Needless to say my date and I got out of there quickly because it was slightly embarrassing. The next time I was in that club the same guy was there and he introduced me to everyone he knew as "the guy with the big dick". Flattering but still...
Very classy.
 

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Has anyone been in the locker room where another man has a full-on erection? I'm not talking about where a guy might be cruising. I was at the river and my friend (married straight? guy) was in his board shorts and got hard. I didn't pay any attention (not that big lol) but it just happened. As an example, I had a good work out the other day and when I was showering I became erect. First time in my life that I really didn't care and there was an older guy who then too got hard. For me, it wasn't sexual. But if lets say I knew the guy I would have been uncomfortable. I understand why so I am curious about other men and their openness.

Yes, once where I'm sure cruising or intentional exhibitionism have nothing to do with it.

Once by chance I had a locker next to another middle-aged guy that is seriously hung. (He was a regular, that I'd seen often, and know he's also gay, but that has little to do with this.) As it happened, we both came out of our nice long, hot showers at the same time, were both hanging large, thick, and heavy, and were getting completely dried off and ready to dress side by side. Both of us are unintentionally getting somewhat mutually aroused by the sight of each other, and growing bigger, thicker, and heavier, but not actually hard. We got our shorts on and got the situation under control before that.

But, there is another guy, younger, and with a wonderfully sculpted body, that seemed to always be working out whenever I went to the gym, and it showed. He's naked, also fresh from a shower, and down on his knees trying to get something out of a bottom locker in the corner. But then I realize he's been checking out the two big dicks from down there, and when he turns to the side notice that he's hard as hell. It was an average-sized dick, actually a bit skinny, but from the way it stood up and moved with him, you could tell it was so hard that it probably hurt! Like it might snap off if you tried to bend it. Then he noticed that I had noticed his extreme erection, and gave me the dirtiest look. Oh, well!